Thank you. I will try the pinching method.Meanwhile the back to the Mors de bride loops that is shaped like a tiny ball has split in half. The SA is getting me another one from the "parts"department but that may take longer than a SO.The butterfly backs are a pain, that's true, but they are secure and that's worth the extra effort. Just make sure to pinch them where the little levers poke out. A small pinch is all that's necessary, then slide them off while still pinching.
It takes a while to get used to the process, but now it's easy and fast.
I love these earrings but Hermes has really made it challenging to wear them.
Thank you again. I am a bit sad.