I totally agree with you! I was interested in the Empreinte Speedy for awhile, but I've heard it sags a lot and you need a purse organizer to keep it's shape, and it's a big black hole too. I have also looked at preloved Empreinte Artsy bags where the embossing is almost completely flat!

It worries me about the wear of Empreinte several years down the road. I'm just hoping that the embossing on my bag will stay in tact forever. Lol! Or as long as possible! I think my embossing looks pretty even all around on my bag except in the corners which is to be expected since it folds in.
Canvas is always a safe bet. I guess the print could fade over years of usage. My husband has a LV wallet over 20 years old in the mono print and it still looks great! Slightly faded, but the canvas has held up, just the lining is a mess.
I've always been interested in Epi too, but I'm not sure how that will wear over time either. Very true about the patent leather losing lustre. It looks beautiful but the fingerprints might make it appear unsightly.
I'm sorry you are having such a dilemma. I felt that way for the last year when I was trying to find the right leather cross body back for me!

I do love the Blanche BB and I'm trying to be extra careful when I carry it also. Trying not to bump it against anything. I'm one of those clumsy people! And I wanted something different besides canvas too. I hope that all of this doesn't cause too much frustration for you! Good luck and I hope it will all work out for you!