Need advice on an engagement ring

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I agree with the posts to try a local jeweler. Do you know your setting material - gold or platinum? Will you need rhodium plating? Or buffing/shining of platinum? Your upscale local jeweler will do this at no charge for life. In addition, appraisals for life will be free. Maintenance (I needed prongs and new setting after 15 years) will be done at a very low charge when you are a customer. And if you buy other piece, you will have an established relationship.
Thanks! I am studying the local stores...
 
Are those the only options you're allowing for? Why not look at places like Good Old Gold and Brian Gavin Diamonds and James Allen and High Performance Diamonds? Get the best diamond for your money.

All of those will sell stones that are GIA and AGS graded, and will surely provide you the best quality options--WITH PHOTOS OF THE DIAMOND YOU ARE BUYING, if not a video as well, in advance. So you know what you're getting.

Just in a 4 minute search this is what I found just in diamonds setting a max budget of 21,000. I didn't search for settings because that is easy, and I left you 4K for that. Do not discount fluorescence, and don't snub an I. When cut like these will be, it won't be any issue. But fluorescence is naturally occurring, tends to look amazing and will actually often aid the price a little because some dealers consider it a detriment--it's not. But take advantage of it. BGD has made it an entire brand in their whole company because so many people (like me) love it.

(yesss!)
http://www.briangavindiamonds.com/d...1.660-g-vs1-round-diamond-ags-bl-104087126003
(yesss!)
http://www.briangavindiamonds.com/d...1.595-g-vs1-round-diamond-ags-bl-104087126005

http://www.briangavindiamonds.com/d...ls/1.504-h-vs1-round-diamond-ags-104083068015

http://www.briangavindiamonds.com/d...ls/1.413-g-vs1-round-diamond-ags-104086279068

(YES YES YES YES!)
http://www.briangavindiamonds.com/d...ls/1.823-i-vs1-round-diamond-ags-104087135007

(YES YES YES YES!
http://www.briangavindiamonds.com/d...ls/1.703-i-vs1-round-diamond-ags-104087405051

(this one is a beaut!)
https://www.jamesallen.com/loose-di...rat-h-color-vs1-clarity-ideal-cut-sku-1118176

(ooh baby!)
https://www.jamesallen.com/loose-di...rat-h-color-vs1-clarity-ideal-cut-sku-1057312

https://www.jamesallen.com/loose-di...-h-color-vs1-clarity-excellent-cut-sku-939656

These are all going to be amazeballs:
http://highperformancediamonds.com/shop/g/HPD7745/?shop=yes
http://highperformancediamonds.com/shop/diamonds/HPD7474/?shop=yes
http://highperformancediamonds.com/shop/g/HPD7834/?shop=yes
http://highperformancediamonds.com/shop/diamonds/HPD7996/?shop=yes
http://highperformancediamonds.com/shop/diamonds/HPD7842/?shop=yes
http://highperformancediamonds.com/shop/i/HPD7845/?shop=yes
http://highperformancediamonds.com/shop/i/HPD7957/?shop=yes

If I sent you a picture of a ring, would you be able to tell me the carat size/cut etc.? Just wondering, since you seem to be an expert on diamonds : )
 
Thanks a million! There are so much infor in your post and I learned a lot! So that is why Tiffany does not go by GIA grade...it makes me skeptical when they use their own grading system, and charge 1/3 more money at least, for the brands I guess. Does all the local store usually use GIA grades? or it depends? I was told that GIA is better than other labs. Also, what is ideal table, depth and angle? Sorry for all the questions. Thanks a lot, truly appreciate your expert's opinion.
Tiffany uses their own grading system, which I personally (nor do most in the industry) do not find reputable. Their grading sets their pricing, and if you're watching the hen house, where's the oversight?

As far as which lab is better? GIA and AGS are about on par, they excel at different things. I prefer AGS because they properly grade cut. They're good with color and clarity but GIA is better for color and clarity, IMO, as far as they're the industry standard there, but they suck SUCK suck at cut grading, so if you're looking at a GIA report that says "excellent" cut, take that with a grain of salt because it means jack squat. They've been trying for years to set something decent up, but they have quite a ways to go. So consider GIA and AGS. Depending which vendor, most of the ones I sent you deal with AGS. They're strict on cut quality.

Ideal table, depth and angles for a round are pretty set. But there are no set numbers for any other shape as you can't do those based on numbers. So if you want a round, I can help you with that based on numbers. I have that info posted several times throughout the forum, it is in the Diamond Reference thread here Diamond FAQ/Reference thread

I will be kind of off the radar for the next few days, so I won't be much help in this thread after today, but if you PM me I can assist you with more questions.

If I sent you a picture of a ring, would you be able to tell me the carat size/cut etc.? Just wondering, since you seem to be an expert on diamonds : )
From a photo I could give you a guesstimate of carat size only based on a guesstimate of the width of the shank. Cut quality I can't really tell from a photo of a ring, I need much more information than that. I could tell you the shape (ie if it's a cushion, etc.) from that though.
 
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Tiffany uses their own grading system, which I personally (nor do most in the industry) do not find reputable. Their grading sets their pricing, and if you're watching the hen house, where's the oversight?

As far as which lab is better? GIA and AGS are about on par, they excel at different things. I prefer AGS because they properly grade cut. They're good with color and clarity but GIA is better for color and clarity, IMO, as far as they're the industry standard there, but they suck SUCK suck at cut grading, so if you're looking at a GIA report that says "excellent" cut, take that with a grain of salt because it means jack squat. They've been trying for years to set something decent up, but they have quite a ways to go. So consider GIA and AGS. Depending which vendor, most of the ones I sent you deal with AGS. They're strict on cut quality.

Ideal table, depth and angles for a round are pretty set. But there are no set numbers for any other shape as you can't do those based on numbers. So if you want a round, I can help you with that based on numbers. I have that info posted several times throughout the forum, it is in the Diamond Reference thread here Diamond FAQ/Reference thread

I will be kind of off the radar for the next few days, so I won't be much help in this thread after today, but if you PM me I can assist you with more questions.

From a photo I could give you a guesstimate of carat size only based on a guesstimate of the width of the shank. Cut quality I can't really tell from a photo of a ring, I need much more information than that. I could tell you the shape (ie if it's a cushion, etc.) from that though.

I don't have much information on it. It belongs to my dead mother-in-law and my father-in-law doesn't remember any details since its from the 80s.

OP -- I don't want to take over your thread -- this idea just came to me.

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My son insisted on taking it from my hands ...
 
I don't have much information on it. It belongs to my dead mother-in-law and my father-in-law doesn't remember any details since its from the 80s.

OP -- I don't want to take over your thread -- this idea just came to me.

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My son insisted on taking it from my hands ...
I need a head on shot. Straight on of the stone. That should give me an idea of the size relative the shank.

But I would suggest you take it for an appraisal. If he has no documentation in their files anywhere, that makes it a little more difficult. Id hope he has the paperwork from when they bought it.
 
I need a head on shot. Straight on of the stone. That should give me an idea of the size relative the shank.

But I would suggest you take it for an appraisal. If he has no documentation in their files anywhere, that makes it a little more difficult. Id hope he has the paperwork from when they bought it.

I tried taking it in for an appraisal once and the jeweler said he would have to take it apart to know for sure. I didn't want to do that.

FIL has no paperwork ...

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Assuming the shank is around 2.5-3 mm it's probably somewhere between 1.5 and 2cts just based on my guesstimate of the diameter. Like I said, that's only basing it on the diameter to shank ratio. Without actual paperwork, the only way to get as close as possible IS to dismantle the ring, because you can't regrade a diamond (as in send to GIA for a grade) unless the stone is loose. They can give a guesstimate with it set, but it won't be accurate.
 
Assuming the shank is around 2.5-3 mm it's probably somewhere between 1.5 and 2cts just based on my guesstimate of the diameter. Like I said, that's only basing it on the diameter to shank ratio. Without actual paperwork, the only way to get as close as possible IS to dismantle the ring, because you can't regrade a diamond (as in send to GIA for a grade) unless the stone is loose. They can give a guesstimate with it set, but it won't be accurate.

Thank you very much! This was helpful and my guess was around 1.5 to 2.0 carats based on other jewelry I own.

I'll try to track down that paperwork -- an excellent idea.
 
I will tell you that 10 years ago when I was looking for a new anniversary diamond, I found a diamond education site that helped me tremendously. After I learned what a well cut diamond was, I did try to look locally, but no one sold anything close to superideal cut diamonds. Ame has listed some good sources, but my diamonds have all come from Good Old Gold and Whiteflash and I have been dealing with them for 10 years now. Whiteflash usually has the greatest selection of ideal cut rounds, and Good Old Gold carries many fancy shape diamonds. Both have done light return testing to show the stones' superior cut and light return. I'll see if I see any good ones to add to the list Ame already posted.
 
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