Spot on with the identity crisis. Believe it or not, DH and I have had these discussions as we have seen the business change over the last decade and he is interested from a business point of view.
On a separate note I was just saying recently to friends that I don't even understand how FSH treats long time customers (some are my personal friends who have had bad experiences). It seems to be that FSH only wants
a) VIP clients who go to the roof garden for pics with Michael Costes
b) local Parisian clients
c) first time customers who are chasing the dream of 'scoring' that elusive Birkin or Kelly, and hopefully are not resellers.
And everyone else is to shop at their local home store or online.
I'm sorry to hear this. I believe your friends of course. The experience with Hermes is so variable. I have had just the opposite experience. I am by no means a big spender by Hermes standards but I visit fsh several times per year and I have had better service there than at my home store. They of course have a better selection of merchandise and the SAs have been very kind in helping me. They seem to value my business more and they send thank you notes and cards.
This is not the case at home. My local store seems frustrated that they cannot get merchandise in for customers and I think it has been so difficult for them to obtain specific items that they seem to prefer big spenders who will drop large sums of money on impulse rather than long term clients who wish to thoughtfully consider purchases. I have never asked them to bring in any item that I didn't end up buying as soon as it arrived but I have a sense that they really would rather not be bothered.