I was strawberry blonde as a baby and child, then my hair turned a deep reddish Auburn in my teens. A friend of mine pointed out that it had started getting quite grey when I was in my 30’s. I hadn’t even noticed the amount, other than plucking a few here and there. At that point I researched what to do, because I could not see myself coloring my hair every month and dealing the the grow out lines and damage, so I decided to get a few highlights to blend the grey in with the red and the small amount of blonde I still had. My hair lightens super easily because of my original color so it was not too much maintenance. Forward to my 40’s when I had salt and pepper hair and that was not a fun phase, realizing I was grey but not enough to go completely without some sort of chemical alteration. Eventually the need for highlights became less and less as people asked how I had achieved my silver or platinum color and I realized it was my own color!! How exciting!! So I would say the whole process probably took 20 years for me to go gray but 10 years of needing highlights every now and then to blend the dark hairs with the silver.
Thank you ever so much for all the lovely compliments!!! I am very happy now, with my hair as well as my LV all black Twist!!
I am no color expert, but I might suggest a toner instead of or in addition to highlights to help with the awkward stages of growing grey. Toners do not damage hair but they don’t last long. But they can give you that little refreshed feeling and the confidence to procede with going grey without a line of demarcation and without lengthy expensive trips to the salon. You can go to a local beauty supply store and ask their advice or have a hairstylist apply it, along with a scalp massage, deep conditioner, and blowout. Who doesn’t enjoy that kind of treatment?
Here is another photo of the underside of my hair. It’s still a lot darker underneath and you can see more of the pepper along with the silver.
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