The wife is definitely more of a fan of strap bags than totes. She tends to not use her Birkins that much.
That being said, the first ever H bag that I bought her was a Gold Kelly 28 from this local store in Greenwich. She returned it for a Lindy because she said it was “too old lady like” so I get where you were coming from when you sold yours.
The wife likes to be able to wear her Kellys crossbody with her different straps. She also likes how the Valentino straps and the like, make the bags look more casual.
I’m also with the others. If you’re asking, you likely want it and have a small piece of your mind that has already been made to get one. This forum is a group of enablers, so please allow me to just pile on that they’re a great bag and you should get one