I love the idea of living somewhere like NYC where you can live in a neighborhood and walk to your local deli/grocery store/etc. and order takeout from anywhere and find incredible shopping/museums/shows on any given day. That said, I'm not a city gal. For some reason SF doesn't feel like a big city to me. I feel very at ease there. Ideally, I'd live somewhere with the ocean and the mountains within driving distance, but we're here for the long haul b/c of DH's work and our families. We'll just have to take regular vacations!!
that's how i feel about sf. it's like a big town. there's only one small portion - downtown - that feels like a metropolis. i dunno. i like how that city feels. very different from ny, but still exciting.
tbh, i haven't gone to the museums in months and i always order from the same 5 restaurants for delivery/takeout. it's because everything is here, you're in this mindset that you can do it, visit it, see it at anytime, so you end up putting it off indefinitely.