Maintaining an H relationship

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I'm hoping I am in the right thread....looking for some advice. I have a SA in Hawaii that I have worked with for over a year. Where I live my local H store always has very limited stock so I thought it would be best to start a relationship with a SA in Hawaii to possibly have a better chance and getting a B or K one day. I was just in Hawaii in October and spent the most I have spent with him over the past year...a couple of weeks ago I received a postcard from him thanking me for coming in...I texted him to let him know I received the card and really appreciated it. I also let him know that I had just got back from Paris as well and although no luck with B or K that I loved the city and visited FSH and Sevres. He texted me back 2 weeks later saying thank you for visiting their locations in Paris and sorry for his late reply that he was out on vacation. I let him know that I was still needing to buy some christmas presents and sent him pictures of two scarves and a pair of sneakers. He said they didn't have the sneakers but would check on the scarves. 3 days later and I hadn't heard anything so I texted him again saying whenever you get a chance can you see about this twilly as well.....4 days later and nothing....so now its been 9 days and I still haven't heard back...I'm not sure what to do..I had texted my Dior rep there as well looking for an item and was texted back by another rep saying she was no longer there...I'm not sure if I should call the store in a couple of days and see if he still works there or maybe he is just really busy with the holiday season and not too worried about my small purchase? :confused1:
 
I'm hoping I am in the right thread....looking for some advice. I have a SA in Hawaii that I have worked with for over a year. Where I live my local H store always has very limited stock so I thought it would be best to start a relationship with a SA in Hawaii to possibly have a better chance and getting a B or K one day. I was just in Hawaii in October and spent the most I have spent with him over the past year...a couple of weeks ago I received a postcard from him thanking me for coming in...I texted him to let him know I received the card and really appreciated it. I also let him know that I had just got back from Paris as well and although no luck with B or K that I loved the city and visited FSH and Sevres. He texted me back 2 weeks later saying thank you for visiting their locations in Paris and sorry for his late reply that he was out on vacation. I let him know that I was still needing to buy some christmas presents and sent him pictures of two scarves and a pair of sneakers. He said they didn't have the sneakers but would check on the scarves. 3 days later and I hadn't heard anything so I texted him again saying whenever you get a chance can you see about this twilly as well.....4 days later and nothing....so now its been 9 days and I still haven't heard back...I'm not sure what to do..I had texted my Dior rep there as well looking for an item and was texted back by another rep saying she was no longer there...I'm not sure if I should call the store in a couple of days and see if he still works there or maybe he is just really busy with the holiday season and not too worried about my small purchase? :confused1:
I’m starting to wonder if, in an effort to curb sales and slow the record setting and impossible to beat again, year over year sales numbers, if corporate is telling the stores to focus only on in person clients and ignore/delay remote shopping/shipping until the new year. Given that the stores are so busy with foot traffic anyway, it might not be that big of a request. Regardless, there’s not much you can do here. I’d probably try to find other items (not Hermes) to give as gifts as backups and try again next month. (Do the stores even answer the phone anymore? Mine generally does not.)
 
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I’m starting to wonder if, in an effort to curb sales and slow the record setting and impossible to beat again, year over year sales numbers, if corporate is telling the stores to focus only on in person clients and ignore/delay remote shopping/shipping until the new year. Given that the stores are so busy with foot traffic anyway, it might not be that big of a request. Regardless, there’s not much you can do here. I’d probably try to find other items (not Hermes) to give as gifts as backups and try again next month. (Do the stores even answer the phone anymore? Mine generally does not.)
My home store (Australia) didn't allow store transfer, link payment during Dec.
My SA has been MIA for almost 2 months, although when I visited the store my SA was there.
I visited the store without appointment since no response from my SA and met a wonderful SA.
This make me think to switch SA.
 
Hello everyone, i have a question to ask. Do you think its ok or hurt the SA feeling if you go to home hermes store and wear the bag you got from other hermes boutique outside the country? Especially its a bag that you have been asked for a year. I know the SA will ask where i got it. I dont know if its a polite thing to do or something you shouldnt do. Thank you
 
Hello everyone, i have a question to ask. Do you think its ok or hurt the SA feeling if you go to home hermes store and wear the bag you got from other hermes boutique outside the country? Especially its a bag that you have been asked for a year. I know the SA will ask where i got it. I dont know if its a polite thing to do or something you shouldnt do. Thank you
I don’t know if it will offend anyone, but I never use a bag when I visit my home store that I got from another store. I don’t think my SA will remember which ones she sold me, but just in case she asks I don’t want that awkwardness. I feel like it’s cheating lol.
 
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Hello everyone, i have a question to ask. Do you think its ok or hurt the SA feeling if you go to home hermes store and wear the bag you got from other hermes boutique outside the country? Especially its a bag that you have been asked for a year. I know the SA will ask where i got it. I dont know if its a polite thing to do or something you shouldnt do. Thank you
I think it would depend on what kind of message you want to send your SA
If I was really annoyed at my SA for not helping me with what I asked for for over a year I would do it as a subtle indicator that I’m prepared to take my business elsewhere and change SA/ boutique.
 
My home store (Australia) didn't allow store transfer, link payment during Dec.
My SA has been MIA for almost 2 months, although when I visited the store my SA was there.
I visited the store without appointment since no response from my SA and met a wonderful SA.
This make me think to switch SA.
I’m kinda in similar situation. My SA is not responsive to text at all. It could be like weeks before she replies. And when she does it’s just a thumb up and down on my text. I was thinking to change SA too. But whenever i go to the store and see my SA. She ended up always being so nice and talkative. And make me so confused!
 
This is what I heard from my SA here in the US. I don’t know if it’s just excuses or if it’s the real story. I prefer to choose the latter. When I’m trying things in store, she is desperately trying to answer some texts. When I am talking to her she is engaged but if I am trying shoes or trying to make up my mind about something, I see that she is using those gaps to answer text messages. She told me several times that she can’t take her phone home with her anymore and she gets so many messages to respond to when she is back at the store that she can’t keep up. She seemed very frustrated at times. She mentioned that she was tired of telling people that she couldn’t get them a bag and they kept nagging her and asking for a bag every week. She was truly overwhelmed. At this point, I never discussed bags with her yet so maybe that’s why she feels free to share those feelings. It might be really tough. Hang in there guys. My two cents: I think Hermès created a type of business model that over the years shaped our relationship with the SAs in a certain way. Meaning, those patterns that we see today is just a response from the public towards the type of business dynamics they manufactured, in a way. The SAs withdraw and the clients pursue and the rat race continues. It’s an endless cycle. The SA needs to find a sustainable way to be mentally healthy to hold on to a retail job that requires her to answer endless texts and deal with us chasing her for a quota bag. I told my SA last week that I am gonna give her some space and we’ll touch base after the Holidays. Is it the SA job to sell? Yes! But there’s a person behind that job description and we need to have some emotional intelligence to remember that they have a lot of people texting them and pursuing them as well. It’s a hard balance to attain. We want the product and we expect the SA to facilitate that transaction. The company plays hard ball and the SA is caught in the middle of that crossfire, having to keep the balls up the air.
 
I’m starting to wonder if, in an effort to curb sales and slow the record setting and impossible to beat again, year over year sales numbers, if corporate is telling the stores to focus only on in person clients and ignore/delay remote shopping/shipping until the new year. Given that the stores are so busy with foot traffic anyway, it might not be that big of a request. Regardless, there’s not much you can do here. I’d probably try to find other items (not Hermes) to give as gifts as backups and try again next month. (Do the stores even answer the phone anymore? Mine generally does not.)
You make a good point, I will have to wait until I am back in Hawaii to shop more I suppose....and hopefully he is still there lol
 
This is what I heard from my SA here in the US. I don’t know if it’s just excuses or if it’s the real story. I prefer to choose the latter. When I’m trying things in store, she is desperately trying to answer some texts. When I am talking to her she is engaged but if I am trying shoes or trying to make up my mind about something, I see that she is using those gaps to answer text messages. She told me several times that she can’t take her phone home with her anymore and she gets so many messages to respond to when she is back at the store that she can’t keep up. She seemed very frustrated at times. She mentioned that she was tired of telling people that she couldn’t get them a bag and they kept nagging her and asking for a bag every week. She was truly overwhelmed. At this point, I never discussed bags with her yet so maybe that’s why she feels free to share those feelings. It might be really tough. Hang in there guys. My two cents: I think Hermès created a type of business model that over the years shaped our relationship with the SAs in a certain way. Meaning, those patterns that we see today is just a response from the public towards the type of business dynamics they manufactured, in a way. The SAs withdraw and the clients pursue and the rat race continues. It’s an endless cycle. The SA needs to find a sustainable way to be mentally healthy to hold on to a retail job that requires her to answer endless texts and deal with us chasing her for a quota bag. I told my SA last week that I am gonna give her some space and we’ll touch base after the Holidays. Is it the SA job to sell? Yes! But there’s a person behind that job description and we need to have some emotional intelligence to remember that they have a lot of people texting them and pursuing them as well. It’s a hard balance to attain. We want the product and we expect the SA to facilitate that transaction. The company plays hard ball and the SA is caught in the middle of that crossfire, having to keep the balls up the air.
Yes this. My Chanel SA has to constantly text too; I don’t take it personally. They have to sell s amount per shift. If customers would just remember that they don’t get anything for the most coveted bags, but they still have to meet certain goals, I think people would be more understanding. JMO though. I do feel that if you buy what you don’t love, that’s a mistake. You should on,y buy what you adore, otherwise go reseller (there are plenty of authentic ones who don’t buy to flip)
 
This is what I heard from my SA here in the US. I don’t know if it’s just excuses or if it’s the real story. I prefer to choose the latter. When I’m trying things in store, she is desperately trying to answer some texts. When I am talking to her she is engaged but if I am trying shoes or trying to make up my mind about something, I see that she is using those gaps to answer text messages. She told me several times that she can’t take her phone home with her anymore and she gets so many messages to respond to when she is back at the store that she can’t keep up. She seemed very frustrated at times. She mentioned that she was tired of telling people that she couldn’t get them a bag and they kept nagging her and asking for a bag every week. She was truly overwhelmed. At this point, I never discussed bags with her yet so maybe that’s why she feels free to share those feelings. It might be really tough. Hang in there guys. My two cents: I think Hermès created a type of business model that over the years shaped our relationship with the SAs in a certain way. Meaning, those patterns that we see today is just a response from the public towards the type of business dynamics they manufactured, in a way. The SAs withdraw and the clients pursue and the rat race continues. It’s an endless cycle. The SA needs to find a sustainable way to be mentally healthy to hold on to a retail job that requires her to answer endless texts and deal with us chasing her for a quota bag. I told my SA last week that I am gonna give her some space and we’ll touch base after the Holidays. Is it the SA job to sell? Yes! But there’s a person behind that job description and we need to have some emotional intelligence to remember that they have a lot of people texting them and pursuing them as well. It’s a hard balance to attain. We want the product and we expect the SA to facilitate that transaction. The company plays hard ball and the SA is caught in the middle of that crossfire, having to keep the balls up the air.

I have never understood the concept of nagging for a quota bag - or just nagging in general.
 
This is what I heard from my SA here in the US. I don’t know if it’s just excuses or if it’s the real story. I prefer to choose the latter. When I’m trying things in store, she is desperately trying to answer some texts. When I am talking to her she is engaged but if I am trying shoes or trying to make up my mind about something, I see that she is using those gaps to answer text messages. She told me several times that she can’t take her phone home with her anymore and she gets so many messages to respond to when she is back at the store that she can’t keep up. She seemed very frustrated at times. She mentioned that she was tired of telling people that she couldn’t get them a bag and they kept nagging her and asking for a bag every week. She was truly overwhelmed. At this point, I never discussed bags with her yet so maybe that’s why she feels free to share those feelings. It might be really tough. Hang in there guys. My two cents: I think Hermès created a type of business model that over the years shaped our relationship with the SAs in a certain way. Meaning, those patterns that we see today is just a response from the public towards the type of business dynamics they manufactured, in a way. The SAs withdraw and the clients pursue and the rat race continues. It’s an endless cycle. The SA needs to find a sustainable way to be mentally healthy to hold on to a retail job that requires her to answer endless texts and deal with us chasing her for a quota bag. I told my SA last week that I am gonna give her some space and we’ll touch base after the Holidays. Is it the SA job to sell? Yes! But there’s a person behind that job description and we need to have some emotional intelligence to remember that they have a lot of people texting them and pursuing them as well. It’s a hard balance to attain. We want the product and we expect the SA to facilitate that transaction. The company plays hard ball and the SA is caught in the middle of that crossfire, having to keep the balls up the air.
In a relationship, communication and understanding are crucial. If we try to contact, to meet and no answer is given. Imagine how frustrated it is for the one who get a silent treatment. Real life couple would end up in divorce at the end :lol:

A simple response would solve the problem. Because sometimes we can't help to think that maybe we are not important for them so they can ignore us.
If they say I am sorry I am very busy til the end of year, try to come back next year. Or we haven't receive any of your items. Or stocks are very limited during this holiday season.
Or just anything.
I think I would understand.
Curious people may visit the store to prove if it's true.
But it isn't as frustrated as not getting any reply at all.

To my SA defence, when I was at the store, stock is low and of course this is a busy season so hence why probably she didn't response to my messages. My SA also got me bags so I am still giving her sometime to reach back to me.

The problem arise if the new SA contacts me instead to offer me some items that are on my list. Get them with new SA or reaching out to my SA again? Because although now I am content with my bag collection, an addition of new quota bag is always welcome :smile:
 
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