I have been following this thread and admiring all your beautiful bags here

Delvaux leather and workmanship seems impeccable and I am drawing to their Tempête or Brilliant (or may be Mutin).
I am looking for a workhorse and ideally in MM size.
As info is very limited online so I thought of turning to our ladies here for some help..
For ladies who are having these bags, may I know
1) If it is easy to get in/out from the bags?
As Brillant need to buckle and unbuckle and therefore I thought this might cause abit of inconveniences especially when we are on the go in subway/bus. I just want to know does this really bother much for those who are having Brillant.
How about Tempête? It seems the design is easier for getting in/out from the bag.
2) How is the weight of all these bags?
I have some heavy bags sitting in my closet and they are become white elephant now. I don't wanna repeat the same mistake again.
3) Are the bags holding their shape well? What about the hardware - will gold/black hardware fade off over time?
I am sorry if I sounded silly here.. Hope to hear from your ladies soon. Thanks in advance ya (^__^)