Let's Get Real: Reflection on Purchases for the year '23?

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I've also reached a kind of purse-peace, it's a good feeling.

Interesting you moved from LP to H scarves, often it's the other way. With Hermes there's always so much choice, new and pre-loved. One thing's for sure, you will have fun.

Scarves are very versatile, esp the 90s. My mother gave me one of my first H scarves in the '90s, I think was in a draw for years :biggrin:. To keep it casual don't be too careful or neat, chuck on, keep warm (or cool) and go. Best thing about H 90s is they can bring a whole outfit together or even make one. If you have time, have a look at all the scarf wearing/styling/tying ideas on the forum and in the no chat Reference section too, everyone and anyone can make 90s work for (just) them.
The scarf threads have been an amazing resource for ideas; there are so many creative and chic posters. I'll definitely keep trying.

And the LP CS scarves are soft and beautiful, but they are far more fragile than the H CS. Or maybe I'm just clumsier with them.
 
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Sadly (but wallet is happy) I didn't but any H bags last year, in fact I didn't buy any bags at all.

At H, I only bought a blanket, 5 scarves (3 for me, 2 for gifts) a tie (coincidentally also with a Rocabar horse blanket illustration) fragrances and moisturisers. I honestly haven't had much time for H shopping. Cartier and my dentist got most of my money this year :biggrin:.

Most H worn bags in '23 in order of wears: Noir Clem Evelyne 29, Bambou VC GP 36, Noir/Etain Sikkim Maxi DS, Swift Bambou Plume 32, Choc Box Plume 28, Choc Travel Bolide, Noir Box 1938 clutch and Gold PP Bolide 35. I didn't wear Ks once, no croc, not much Box apart from Plume.
And your bambou Plume is SPECTACULAR!!!
 
All very practical assessments, and I love that you found some useful treasures new and older, especially that BE Marwari PM - amazing colour and I know it suits that bag/size well.

I like that you tried with some items and moved them along quickly if they didn't work for you. Experience with those Gaby sandals sound horrendous! I hope the new owner finds more comfort.
One thing that I hate is having stuff sitting around that I don't use, so I tend to re-home pretty promptly. I really love the marwari, though! I've been more into discontinued H designs lately. Just got a bourlingue two days ago and have been testing it out. Such a practical bag!
Someone didn't thoroughly think through the design of those Gaby sandals - in hindsight, a wide strap with scalloped edges on the forefoot is only gonna work if the strap is raised or curved a little bit so it doesn't dig into the top of the foot as it arches.
 
Ok, these might be more along the line of "surprise hits" rather than investments--

What? wool/cashmere throw blanket (with a floral/plant/plaid design - too lazy to look up the name) and Passifolia breakfast cup and saucer
Bought for? to keep warm in my semi-cold house (externally covered by the blanket, internally by the hot beverage and snack I partake of on the Passifolia)
Live up to expectations? YES! More of a dual buy: practical use and appreciation of the design on each item, and has turned out to be a small pleasure I get in the week. I even ended up getting another throw later in the year to use in another room.
Use and CpW? Weekly if not daily use, so very good
Love, like, or ride or die status? Love!

And as I'm typing this, I fully recognize that I also got 2 of my leather wishlist items this past year as well: K28 (my first quota/iconic bag!) and K Cut clutch. Those have DEFINITELY brought me lots of joy, and I'm still processing the fact that I got the K Cut after thinking it wouldn't happen (this was at the end of the year). I had been on a lowkey search for a classic black non-exotic leather and GHW clutch (any brand) that I would keep long-term, and had settled on the thought it may take me 5 years or so to really find that forever item. I actually asked my SA to give me a day or two to think about it after she showed me :huh:, but it finally hit me that this was it!
I have a feeling it'll become my 2024 "investment" that I find most worthwhile.
 
This is the first year I've been able to collect what would have been a mind-blowing selection to me as a beginner Hermes collector back in college (around 15 years ago). And a lot of that is thanks to really good exchange rates and a commitment to spending a lot of time tracking down the perfect bags & accessories for my wardrobe and budget. Everything below is more of a journey to where I am now with my purchases!

The Bolides I purchased two years ago helped me learn that open-top handbags with a shoulder strap option are my strongest preference. But they also taught me that leathers like Clemence aren't my style (too casual) and are too heavy for me. This moved me to my first Kelly last year (vintage, 32cm, in Gulliver). And this year, that taught me that I love the Kelly, and I like it in a bigger size (32cm+), but that getting in and out of them is a concession for having that nice, neat, elegant appearance. So I scootched over to try a Birkin, which had the downside of no shoulder strap but the upside of being able to keep it open. I quickly learned that a B35 is just not the right shape for my build, and the B30 is too hard to find in my price range for the leathers I like, which led me to the HAC 32cm. And both the size and shape of the bag (being longer rather than wider) plus the price range, made it perfect for me! Landing my vache natural HAC 32cm was the purchase highlight of my year. Hermes collecting is a journey, after all!

I do favor a larger bag, so obtaining a Kelly 35cm was also a nice addition this year, and, still adoring the Bolide, my last hurrah of the year was a massive Bolide 45 in Chamonix. It has great structure and I love a smooth leather with character. It's just a massive bag but looks fun with a huge coat!

I've finally narrowed down my Hermes bag collecting criteria, though much like my taste, I am sure it will shrink, expand, or grow, but right now, the bag has to be: soft, smooth, and able to age exceptionally well. It needs character, with vintage as a preference, and preferably a lighter leather as I like my bags larger sized. It must be a handbag first and foremost, I don't care for shoulder-only styles. My bags get used and rotated a lot, they don't sit in the closet, so cost per wear is always solid.

My husband also upgraded my smaller zipped Hermes wallet to what was always my dream leather/color combo - Rose Shocking Chevre, a long Bearn wallet. I've learned I adore Chevre for accessories but I don't care for it as a bag leather. I also managed a few other accessories - a few belts, gloves, cashmere scarves and shoes. I learned I like very few Hermes shoes - by and large, they aren't very special or particularly well-made. But a few work well for me (the Day sneaker and Kennedy loafer).

I also swore up and down I would never wear or buy a brown bag. I have *never* in my 40 years of life worn earth-toned neutrals like brown, ivory, camel, etc. But as always, the second I say "never," I end up doing a 180, and here I am with three brown bags and a wardrobe of neutrals, and I wear them heavily! I think I just needed a change - I've spent the last 10 years with vibrant hair colors and equally vibrant clothing, and this year, I decided gray-silver hair and neutrals were the way to go (for now).

Happy New Year and enjoy where the journey takes y'all! :heart:
Such a great reflection. Handbags collecting is journey.
 
For 2023
B25 Togo Bleu Navy GHW -FSH
2 Twillys FSH
90 Brandebourgs - Vert FSH
Vetiver Tonka -FSH
Della Cavalleria Tadelakt Noir GHW - Cannes
90 Les Douze Leopards Double Face - Rose Bonbon -Las Vegas
Chevaloscope Neon Scarf 45 - Washington DC
Kelly Caleche EDP - Washington DC
24mm bleu Jean/biscuit H Palladium Cursive -Madison Ave
I purchased a 90 Hermes story from a fabulous TPF member

I don’t have a home store where I live so I like to visit stores on vacay or when I take a trip- I have used everything with the exception of the belt, I have used the buckle but the color way of the belt not so much because I have other neutrals I wear more.
Scarves I love! I got my first double faces and I love them.
 
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