Orchid you need a real man like Lenny inYup. As hot as I think he is, I just get the feeling he smells - as in, the kind of laid back guy who thinks deodorant is overrated and natural body odour is nothing to be ashamed about. I knew a guy like that in my youth. So cool, so hip but didn’t believe in deodorant or any rules/social etiquette for that matter lol.