Not calling you out just wanting to let you know how it was in the old days. I am much older than you. When I was young no girl would be caught dead holding hands, grabbing boobs or butts or anything of that sort with another girl. Yes, they could share a double bed on overnights but no kissing or touching was going on. I really see no need for playing sexual games and wonder why these young girls can not be straight up with their feelings. Most girls are strong enough to say no either way. We have allowed our youth to become too obsessed with things sexual. I do not mean the normal youthful crushes, dating and for some it will be sex, but the sexualization of youth. They feel the need to become grown up too soon and the clothing leaves nothing to the imagination. Kids need time to be kids. Be friends with who you wish but all the touchy feely just for attention is game playing and I don't feel game playing is healthy for anyone. JMHO>
I think kissing and touching in bed is a bit more than just "being cool and sexy" :imgbroken:
I remember holding hands with your best friend was BIG when I was young. But alcohol can help so much. It was more like a kiss here and therein on the mouth and you know, better a girl craps your boobs than a strange guy. There were not these barricades between girl and girl like girl and boy. don´t know how to explain...
Probably it´s because they are teens and with all these hormones and best friends they get confused? Mixing up love-feelings with best-friend-feeling? (just like 15 year olds "fall in love" each month)
But you have to agree, this behavior is normal these days....
Just take a look at Facebook. 13 year olds pose sexual on their default picture.