You are so sweet, I am really touched that you took the time to do a thoughtful analysis of how this ring looks on me. It really means a lot to me, and I appreciate it so very much. I fear I am landing in the same place as you--that, despite the positive feedback, my hand doesn't look pretty wearing it. I'm sure the fact that I rarely have time for manicures, and these pictures are unfiltered (unlike Instagram!) contributes to this feeling. I do have 30 days to return, so I may have to see if it grows on me.
I'm wondering if I need a slightly more feminine style (for example, I am loving how your BML ring looks on you, Purrsey), but don't want anything TOO feminine (I also tried some VCA rings and have firmly decided that, as beautiful as they are, I cannot wear a flower or clover on my finger--just not my style). So I feel like Goldilocks looking for something just right.
Anyway--I really appreciate everyone's feedback! I sure hope the ring grows on me.