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Rouge H said:
This didn’t take long.
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Affleck Defies Wife! Ben Caught Lighting Up A Cigarette After Promising J Lo He'd Quit As Rumors Of Marital Issues Continue To Mount

As rumors of martial issues continue to grow, RadarOnline.com has caught Ben Affleck puffing on his signature cigarettes despite "promising" his new wife Jennifer Lopez he'd quit.
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Ben kind of looks like the late Jean-Pole Belmondo here in the blue sweater, a cigarette and beard. Very 70’s sexy, if you ask me :graucho: Perhaps that Paris honeymoon has rubbed off on him somewhat.
 
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Allisonfaye said:
I have noticed a common denominator in my friends who are past menopause (most of them) and scary skinny. They literally don't eat. I was kind of fascinated getting to know a person in my new town. We went out to eat and she eats a bowl of fruit or a small salad as her meals. She's skinny because she doesn't eat. I am married to an Italian and we are foodies. I would love to give up food. But I can't.
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hi:) Came across your post when searching menopause and wanted to tell you:
at the time you wrote that post I would second every word. Because I really enjoyed food and I really ate A LOT!

Now..... 9 months later I seem to start the menopause- journey and I simply do not eat anymore.

Today 1 had 300 gr of Spinach - with tomatoes and that was ist.

Have been tracking my caloric intake the last months and rarely hit 600 kcal / d.

Won't loose any weight though, so...........*sad face*
 
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A1aGypsy said:
I agree and, to add, I think she needed to prove she was loveable after the nonsense with AR. It could never have worked with AR, not because he was sliding into other people’s DMs, but because her true love was someone else. And look how quickly she was snapped back up!

Ben was also a similar unresolved issue. To resurrect this relationship brings closure to the drama from a couple decades ago. Now she is “the one he couldn’t forget” as opposed to the one he cheated on enroute to the altar.

On Ben’s part - he was George Clooney’ing Batman and was coming across as The Old Guy With The Sad Tattoo. He needed some renewed sexual energy.

This was a win / win for both of them. I’m all in for a crazy love story but I suspect this isn’t one.
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I think maybe her one true love is Jennifer
 
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millivanilli said:
hi:smile: Came across your post when searching menopause and wanted to tell you:
at the time you wrote that post I would second every word. Because I really enjoyed food and I really ate A LOT!

Now..... 9 months later I seem to start the menopause- journey and I simply do not eat anymore.

Today 1 had 300 gr of Spinach - with tomatoes and that was ist.

Have been tracking my caloric intake the last months and rarely hit 600 kcal / d.

Won't loose any weight though, so...........*sad face*
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That is not nearly enough to fuel a body. It may be a vicious cycle - you aren’t eating enough so your body is holding onto it more and so you aren’t losing weight.

There are a lot of resources for how to handle menopause online. Maybe check them out. I think we also have to accept that things will change as we age. Maybe see a nutritionist or a naturopath to find out the best options for food. But I don’t think starving yourself is the answer. I think that will lead to more harm than good.
 
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A1aGypsy said:
I agree and, to add, I think she needed to prove she was loveable after the nonsense with AR. It could never have worked with AR, not because he was sliding into other people’s DMs, but because her true love was someone else. And look how quickly she was snapped back up!

Ben was also a similar unresolved issue. To resurrect this relationship brings closure to the drama from a couple decades ago. Now she is “the one he couldn’t forget” as opposed to the one he cheated on enroute to the altar.

On Ben’s part - he was George Clooney’ing Batman and was coming across as The Old Guy With The Sad Tattoo. He needed some renewed sexual energy.

This was a win / win for both of them. I’m all in for a crazy love story but I suspect this isn’t one.
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Same here. Such a sucker for 'em. :love: I give them 50/50 odds-maybe they'll surprise us. ;)
 
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sdkitty said:
she can't go a minute without a man....someone to worship and adore her? make her feel desirable? I don't understand why people were excited about those two getting back together.
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Agreed! A woman who can't stand on her own two feet is never going to be good in a relationship. She's going to constantly think she has to be there rather than choosing to be there.
 
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A1aGypsy said:
I agree and, to add, I think she needed to prove she was loveable after the nonsense with AR. It could never have worked with AR, not because he was sliding into other people’s DMs, but because her true love was someone else. And look how quickly she was snapped back up!

Ben was also a similar unresolved issue. To resurrect this relationship brings closure to the drama from a couple decades ago. Now she is “the one he couldn’t forget” as opposed to the one he cheated on enroute to the altar.

On Ben’s part - he was George Clooney’ing Batman and was coming across as The Old Guy With The Sad Tattoo. He needed some renewed sexual energy.

This was a win / win for both of them. I’m all in for a crazy love story but I suspect this isn’t one.
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He cheated on her the first time around? I thought he just got cold feet. I think they rushed into it. Now that the wedding is over they have to really deal with each other as husband and wife.

ETA: I believe when you lay anything on too thick that’s to try and cover up something. They laid on that PDA like no tmrw. She likes that tho. :/
It’s like those ppl on FB where their lives appear “perfect” but you actually know them and that’s so far from the truth.
 
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