Jennifer Aniston

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I think she is coming into her own. We don't know her. I am sure she is happy in her blessed life. Focusing on what she has, and not what she doesn't, I am sure she knows that she is surrounded by good friends, family and the lugeries that she was blessed to be given.

I think so too. She does seem to have a great life. And I'm happy for her!
 
^Thanks for seeing what seems so obvious. I don't want to slam her because I have no reason to dislike her. I feel indifferent about her actually, but it is just sad to watch her get used by men still at this point in her life. Sorry, maybe JM wasn't using her but he seems like he needs to be validated with publicity.

I also do not think a marriage can be ruined by another woman, it is not that easy to ruin a "good" marriage, but I have always hated the woman blaming thing. Jen needs to own her part in the failed marriage because I don't buy into the victim bs - unless she plays into the victimization and is still repeating that cycle.:crybaby:
 
I'm indifferent too, not a die hard fan of any of them.
But people's comments about how she's plays a victim or doesn't own her feelings always perplexes me. . . as if any of us have any intimiate details about how she REALLY feels.
Maybe she's not being used by men. Actually, I don't think she is, Vince proposed, she declined.
We have no idea if JM was actually HER fling. . . KWIM?
 
At the end of the day she needs to sort out her own issues/insecurities before looking for love (or looking to be loved).

Plus dating other celebs (or anyone high profile) does make things a little more complex, maybe she should just keep a low profile and try dating people in the real world?
 
I don't mean to keep bring this up, but Jen herself has said she is insecure and tends to be sad. Not only can you see it, but she herself has said it. I don't think she is home crying all day long, but her soul has been hurt many times, deep routed hurt, from childhood to present. I am not saying we should all feel sorry for her, poor Jenn.. NO.. I think she is learning to become comfortable with her life, as it is.. but she has said that she has been through a lot in her past leading to the present that has made her sad. I think with the saddness comes also an appreciation for the simplier things in life too. I understand her, as I am the same way, dealing with a lot of hurt and saddness in my life too. Some people just have a hard time overcoming this type of deep hurt saddness. I am sure she is fine. She is strong, and has many wonderful people in her life who care about her deeply.
 
I don't believe that it takes two to ruin a marriage. You really can be walking around happy as a clam and thinking everything is A-OK and then find out your husband was cheating on you. Thank goodness it hasn't happened to me but it has to other people I know, usually in connection with a husband's business trip and a happy hour. So unless your fault is that you're not psyhic your whole marriage just went down the tubes without you knowing it.

Of course, you can save your marriage by being like Alan Jackson's wife and claim that the demise in your marriage is all your fault because you didn't have the self-confidence to be married to someone so famous and boozing and hanging out with hot groopies but one you found God and wrote a book and got the cover of People magazine that everything is wonderful and your marriage is saved. I guess if you claim that everything is your fault then everything will be alright.
 
At the end of the day she needs to sort out her own issues/insecurities before looking for love (or looking to be loved).

but thats what I'm saying! LOL!
How you do you KNOW she hasn't already? I mean, people are talking about interviews w/ her from 5 or 10 or even more years ago.
Maybe she was in a funk? Or maybe she wasn't and was halfway through therapy and hasn't been depressive or 'insecure' since.
I do know that I am, for sure, not the exact same person I was 10 yrs ago.
Media and people keep labeling this gal. . .
 
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