I hate to speak about AJ in this in Jen's thread but I disagree, Bye Kitty. AJ has never come across as humble or nice to me. When she was younger she came across as slightly off but not in a dangerous way. Now she's sort of gone under the radar - thank God. I also have the sense that Jen is aware that she had issues and sort to get help and work through them. She had issues with her mom but for years sort to work through them with her mom and when that didn't work, dealt with those issues on her own. She has been vocal about her insecurities and what she has done to improve herself. All of AJ's discussions about her issues have been who did her wrong, mainly, her problems with her dad and how he failed her. Correct me if I'm wrong but I don't recall any interviews she's given about trying to reach out to her dad or working through her issues herself.
Likewise, I've always seen a major red flag in the fact that she responded to the accusations of adultery with Brad by saying her dad cheated on her mom and it nearly destroyed her mother so she could never do that to another woman, yet she has a history of cheating with men who were involved with others.
I really wish the comparison between the two would end though. As somebody said before, they are very different women and this triangle went on for too long and was drummed up to sell magazines. We the public deserve better

