In the photo wearing the red dress, it is clear that she has no body fat at all and I think that takes away femininity. She looks, unfortunately, very hard with the plastic surgery face, disproportionate sized chest and veiny arms. Looks are irrelevant, of course, when one is in love, but I think she could/should allow herself some leeway. It's pointless to try and look thirty years younger; those days have gone and plastic surgery etc won't bring them back because her face looks, to me, quite damaged. I think she's at breaking point regarding tweakments/procedures etc, even though her "look" seems to be preferred for them? Her? Him? By all accounts she is smart so let's hope she realises there's a time to stop and that time has arrived.