I still don’t get how anyone can correlate concern about resale value or extra caretaking of a bag to either the ability to afford the bag or not buying bags that make your heart sing.
The very reason many people have wealth is because they are money savvy in all parts of their lives. Heck, I compare toilet paper prices. My friends think this is hilarious. But, I had grandparents who were dead, destitiute broke in the depression and passed on the imperative
and joy of being thrifty down the generations along with the imperative of building wealth.For some of us, saving a dollar on a ten thousand dollar purchase is just plain fun. What others may see as obsession is a game for us. We do a little dance of victory when we use a double coupon on toothpaste and then drive it off in the trunk of our fully paid off luxury vehicles to our fully paid off luxury homes.
And many times people asking about resale are choosing between two bags that make their heart sing. They are just considering an additional buying criteria like roominess, weight and hardware color. I can love a number of bags. But I won’t choose x because the leather isn’t as durable and instead choose y. Doesn’t that mean y doesn’t make my heart sing. Nope. I just made a wiser choice for me with y than x.
So, I’d say just chill.

We all do bags soooo differently. A lot of people who have a new premier reveal every month are living in debt and financial ruin. And a lot are filthy rich. No way to know. A lot of people who don’t care about resale STILL buy bags that they don’t really want because of any number of reasons.
Enjoy spending your money on bags as you see fit. They’re yours. But, the penny pinching, resale value considering, coupon loving millionaire or billionaire next door may be just that. Happy as heck with playing with their money and their beloved and much wanted luxury bags in the way that works for them.