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Hugs to you, I am so sorry to hear this. This is something I will never be able to fully understand and it breaks my heart. I’ve known too many women who have lost children. And this is a big reason why people should be weary of asking a women why she doesn’t have any children because what if she is trying and or lost one. I’ve always been told you never forget the pregnancy. [emoji173]️

My family is very supportive of my choice to be child free and there is no shortage of others children so maybe that helps [emoji4]
Thank you for the hugs. :hugs:I'm glad your family is supportive! That's a treasure. :hbeat:

TO! I wish more women who would say things like this than judgmental statements. It’s tough being a woman.
:heart: I like to imagine more women are rooting for each other, but criticism is just so much louder sometimes.

I hope you find just the right green-blue color. I like blues and greens mixed together too and know what you mean about needing it to be just right. My favorite is when you can't call it either blue or green because it's such a perfect mix of the two.

I'm sorry and your not wrong people just don't know... When my daughter M/c back in October she really didn't tell anyone heck no one really knew anyways that she was pregnant and of coarse because DGS is getting older people kept bugging her on when was she having another....

I suppose because in my life i have made many choices people have criticized as i have aged i now just laugh at the stupid lol. Live your life for you, those who matter typically have value to their input and those that don't can keep running their mouths.
I'm so sorry for your daughter. Is she okay? Is this the same daughter that is going through the testing now? :hugs:

I like your thinking.

View attachment 4313743 Hey, just celebrating my 20,000 posts with my lovely ban islanders!!! Amazing how much I have to say about bags (and food and other indulgences). My next TPF goal is to earn the OG designation, lol.
:happydance::tup::happydance::wave: Congratulations IM on reaching 20,000 posts!
 
MM's apple green is yummy! [emoji6]
But my favorite of all is my RDK hobo in peridot green. I should pull it out tomorrow to brighten what promises to be a yucky day. :yes:
To me, Bonnie Cashin and Reed Krakoff did better colors than Vevers does. Vevers seems to repeat the same colors--saddle, oxblood to name a couple. I understand black because that's a staple; I'd just like to see other colors like a richer brown. That's why I got that Penelope from MM in rust vachetta. I wish I could have purchased a Zhoe Legend in that color, but I cannot spend any more on bags for a long time.
 
At the time, I thought emerald was the better color (It probably is). Maybe I was expecting to be totally blown away by the color but it wasn’t that way when I first opened the box. Or maybe I am just not a green bag person.
Emerald is a beautiful shade, but it's not for me. I don't care for jade colors because they tend to have blue undertones.
 
To me, Bonnie Cashin and Reed Krakoff did better colors than Vevers does. Vevers seems to repeat the same colors--saddle, oxblood to name a couple. I understand black because that's a staple; I'd just like to see other colors like a richer brown. That's why I got that Penelope from MM in rust vachetta. I wish I could have purchased a Zhoe Legend in that color, but I cannot spend any more on bags for a long time.

Agree about Brown. They only seem to have had saddle recently and then they only made items with dark copper hardware. I need a warm brown with brass!

Or the butterscotch rogue color, bring something like that back! I know most casual bag buyers go towards neutral colors (even the bag obsessed like me prefers neutrals [emoji23]). But you can still have fun with neutrals by offering variety or more nuanced shades.
 
I love my Marine duffle a lot. It is just the perfect size for me and versatile color — it is one of my favorite bags. I got mine on sale at Macy’s. I think I just have some sort of mental block or something that is keeping me from loving/using the Emerald one.
I saw the emerald irl and loved it. But I struggled to come up with ways to wear it other than with black/white or grey/white clothing. I don't know why.
 
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