I'm sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. The necklace is beautiful, and I think you have chosen a wonderful way to honor her. I too believe that hummingbird was sent especially for you.
And I agree, I hope you told your story to the artist who created your necklace. I know they would enjoy hearing it and knowing that their work represents something so special for you.
I also wanted to add that I think it was very thoughtful of your DH's uncle to send you the check with those instructions, in lieu of flowers.
Thank you for all of your kind comments.
Several of you asked if I told the artist my story. I did, and she loved it. She still has her Mom, but she's 99, and has dementia.
Today is the 1-month anniversary of my Mom's death.
The seller sent the necklace out today, so I should have it pretty soon. I can't wait to wear it. It's her first in a line of local bird portrait jewelry. If she makes any other bird species necklaces, I think I'll buy those, as well.
I probably will also add a sterling hummingbird charm to my charm bracelet.
Joya still comes to the feeder many times each day! I find a sense of comfort when I see her. I hope she finds a mate soon, and has babies, and they have babies, and so on. I'd love to have a hummingbird dynasty here. Yet another wonderful way to honor my Mom!