B-Mom, I got a close to 20-year-old and 17-year-old. They make bigger messes. I came THIS close to taking a picture of the exploded bomb that is DS' room to post on Chat. But then he went back to college and I miss him.
Well, before I killed the PF (I don't know how I do it, but I had a really long message and I lost all access to the forum...)
My boy, always a slob, disorganized, but organized enough to know that he needed to take a class during college summer break on organizational skills. He had to design the course for Sylvan. We actually got our money back. But, EB, I digress.
Our house has five bedrooms. Two on ground level (one has been converted to office/dressing suite for DS) and three upstairs. The way the second floor was designed was to be DS's bedroom attached to a guest room by a jack/jill bathroom. Then via a long, hallway, which is actually living space, couch, lamps, library, chairs, my old breakfront, the third bedroom and attached bath was supposed to be my studio. But, after 10 years of not using it, we made it into a luxurious guest room -- for all the important and luxury-expecting guests we host, LOL. Well, guess where DS decided to sleep and have his luxurious bath. The day after DS scrubbed, dusted, fixed cleaned that very room. No, DS could not sleep in his own messy room, but the clean, freshly dusted and straightened up room. No, I haven't been up there to check it out. And yes, I do not care where he sleeps as long as he comes home for his visits occasionally.
ps -- he usually takes his luxurious baths in mom's unused jacuzzi, but he uses the one furthest away from our bedroom to be quiet, because his baths can take hours. He is very considerate. He brought his own home-made bath salts!