Mindi, I am sending vibes to you. In my experience, the smaller the dog, the more likely there will be 'accidents.' My dogs have eaten many forbidden things (including chocolate) and survived. I didn't even know raisins were poisonous (not that I feed them raisins, but I wouldn't worry if they got a few).
When I feed my two, I feed the littler one in the crate, and the other one outside the crate, just to keep the bigger piggy from eating the little guys food. Maybe you could separate them when you feed them?
I am sorry you are frustrated right now and feeling bad, but I can tell you that from reading your posts, you are a very good doggie parent. I hope you feel better as the day goes on. Henry is still a puppy and I think he will calm down as time goes on.
When I feed my two, I feed the littler one in the crate, and the other one outside the crate, just to keep the bigger piggy from eating the little guys food. Maybe you could separate them when you feed them?
I am sorry you are frustrated right now and feeling bad, but I can tell you that from reading your posts, you are a very good doggie parent. I hope you feel better as the day goes on. Henry is still a puppy and I think he will calm down as time goes on.