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I am not a doctor, but from what i read in the scientific/health section of the news, zika affects the ability of the nervous system to repair itself, therefore it is associated to early dementia. Unfortunately we don't know enough about it to understand all its consequences. Not a great subject for the cafe', i fear.

About the miami show, there are several dates in florida. The group that organizes them (the same for baltimore, nyc, miami etc) is out of Palm beach. This is their website with dates and details:
http://www.palmbeachshowgroup.com

While the shows differ in size, the organizer only picks qualified and establsied exhibitors, making the shows always worth going.
The group that sent an email about the jewelry history series that takes place two days before the show opens is the U.S. Antique Shows. This group may well be affiliated with the Palm Beach Show group which as you say does Baltimore.
 
Yes their store is amazing and rhey could not be nicer. Last year they were selling an Enigma machine. Piece of history, and a rare one.

This year at the Baltimore store they had some truly beautiful pieces of jewelry, plus a Norman Rockwell, a stunning Boldini, a Monet, and a Buffet - which I adore. We thought about the Buffet, but we just moved to a new house and we still have to place the paintings we have. Not a good time to buy new ones.
I was sorry to miss it. An Enigma machine!
 
I know the show you are talking about though I have never been to one. It was well attended in the past. The convention center is being remodeled. I do not know what impact there will be.
My reply to Eagle & antique shows was dumb[emoji37]
I was thinking about the kind of sellers at the Sunday markets on Lincoln Rd in Miami Beach
Well, now I know where the Sunday markets in Miami Beach are located! Always ready to look at stuff I haven't seen before!
 
A woman I know is in her 70's & worried about Zika's effect on the elderly.
She wears long sleeve shirts & pants to protect herself.
I think about all the things we don't know that exist & the potential harm they cause.
The affected area where Zika was detected has been sprayed. I wonder if the spray is damaging to the environment & us??

I would not probably worry too much (life is life), but we - as society - should prevent its spreading regardless. My MIL is 87 and got Zika sometime ago. She recovered fine but she said that for the first time in her life she had suicidal thoughts and was depressed.
An illness that touches the nervous system is scary.

Other countries regularly do mosquito treatments quite effectively and with no obvious consequences to human and pets. Zika is not the only illness brought by mosquitos, just the newest!

In DC is insane. In the summer one cannot stand outside at dusk for 5 min without being eaten alive. The tiger mosquito - which is active at any time of the day - is also spreading. There are alternatives to spraying which are being considered, including neutering the mosquitos with generic techniques. We gotta be smarter than a bug!
 
I absolutely trust my SA. She has helped me to make some excellent choices. And she's always honest with me about what works for me and what doesn't. I rarely buy anything if she isn't there to help me. I'm fortunate that I travel to Paris often enough to have gotten to know a few of the SAs there too. Their stock is understandably better and they are incredibly patient and nice about showing me different things. So I almost feel like I have two home stores and I spread my purchases out to both. I won't lie. The discount is nice in Europe but I try to support my local store too and I'm really careful not to waste their time showing me things here that I plan to buy in Paris.

That Paris thread gives a very negative view of what it's like to shop at fsh. If you are obviously a regular customer of the brand (and believe me we are quite obvious) the experience is quite pleasant. The store is large and busy but laid out in a way that makes it more cozy and comfortable than one would think. I'm saying this because I know that some other cafe members are traveling to Paris in the next year and I don't want them to be turned off of the experience of shopping at fsh. Whether for a bag or other trinkets I have always found it to be a special experience.
Probably a stupid question Pbp, but I am going to ask any way,.
What marks one out as being a regular customer of the brand.
I am really bad at not wearing my stuff in general, for fear of spoiling etc, and even more so when on holiday, so although I may well be considered a "regular", if I am not wearing any "H" would that be a negative.
Just interested as I am hoping that a Paris trip may be in the not too distant future and I would like to experience FSH, even just for a look rather than "scoring".
 
My first K was fairly quick to come and I was willing to take most leathers and several different colors. I got offered a very special bag, a declined SO that fit my ideal specs in color and hardware and it was Togo so perfect for a workhorse bag but my next bag, if it ever comes is in a leather that wasn't offered much in this style but is showing up in waves now in a classic/very desirable color. My boutique is having a grand reopening soon and my fingers are crossed there's something waiting for me in the giant new stock room! It's been a year since my Kelly so I'm ready and now that it's full Fall I would really love to have this bag to carry with my Fall wardrobe.

I have short list of bags that I would like to get from the boutique, home store and FSH if I'm lucky but for the most part I've been really happy with my two vintage buys and I'm able to get exactly what I want-without reseller mark ups. I think at a certain point I'll stick with pre loved as I love old colors, leathers and the friendlier prices.
Oh MrsO, my mind is reeling at just what this next bag might be.
Hope you do get your heart's desire.
Oh and please do share details when you have it!
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I should be feeling guilty. I bought too many bags /scarves/other stuff this year. More than any other year. They are all from
H stores in US so the price is pretty high. My husband doesn't have a strong personality on these kind of things. He almost never say no to any shopping I do. It's somewhat bad. I need someone to remind me sometimes. [emoji85][emoji85]

The only thing I do that makes him mad is canceling trips to France or to other cities in US. I did twice in a row, cancelled one trip to Hawaii and one trip to Paris and south France this year. He was mad and stepped out of the house for most of that night and napped in his office. I found it rather difficult to travel with two small babies. He thought I was just finding excuses not to travel. He said "what if I drop dead tomorrow? The trip would be sth that we will never go. As the time goes by the only thing we could remember and enjoy is all the places we have been to. Now you keep cancelling trips that also cost a whole bunch of money(cancellation fees etc.). You just want to stay home!" Oh man that guy was seriously mad at me that day.

But I am not cancelling my trip to the east coast this time. I am actually shopping for portable toddler toilet today. I am getting ready and promised him I would go. He wants me to enjoy the relaxing vacation in an all inclusive resort.

I thought(when I saw your reply), was I not nice to cancel the trips he planned for months and spent lots of time on? Probably I should try to make a little more effort to make the travel happen ...when I read Dharma's journal about her travel adventure that was inspiring ... her trip was a lot more difficult than mine. Yet she did it. [emoji173]️[emoji106]
Sending you hugs Cremel, you sound like you need a big cuddle and re-assurance.
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Just one more word about Zika: While it is true that the greatest danger is to pregnant women, since the disease is now proven to cause severe birth defects, there is, as MadMadCat said, a small percentage of adult sufferers who do get sick from the virus. And while the illness in adults usually ranges from completely asymptomatic to mild, some adults have developed Guillain-Barré syndrome, a rare neurological disorder causing paralysis and sometimes necessitating hospitalization. In extreme cases, victims may spend months on a ventilator (if the diaphragm is paralyzed). Statistically this outcome is very, very rare, but it exists. How one responds to this small risk is a personal choice: there is no "right" answer. DH and I cancelled a trip to the Carribbean last March--my choice, not his--because of the newness of this disease and the general lack of understanding. Now that it is better understood and there are both more stats on it and more measures globally to combat it, I will not choose to alter my travel plans again, but if I were particularly vulnerable for any reason--pre-exisiting illness, age, etc.--I very well might. It's a valid concern.
On the other hand, my odds of slipping in the bathroom or being in an automobile accident are much greater than of contracting Zika. So, er, that's the good news? :P
My DH is a math guy, so the statistical odds of something happening are extremely relevant to him. I am a psychologist gal, so the "feeling" of danger is more salient to me. We try to balance each other's tendencies!
Kay, nuff virus talk. Back to the fun stuff!
 
Just one more word about Zika: While it is true that the greatest danger is to pregnant women, since the disease is now proven to cause severe birth defects, there is, as MadMadCat said, a small percentage of adult sufferers who do get sick from the virus. And while the illness in adults usually ranges from completely asymptomatic to mild, some adults have developed Guillain-Barré syndrome, a rare neurological disorder causing paralysis and sometimes necessitating hospitalization. In extreme cases, victims may spend months on a ventilator (if the diaphragm is paralyzed). Statistically this outcome is very, very rare, but it exists. How one responds to this small risk is a personal choice: there is no "right" answer. DH and I cancelled a trip to the Carribbean last March--my choice, not his--because of the newness of this disease and the general lack of understanding. Now that it is better understood and there are both more stats on it and more measures globally to combat it, I will not choose to alter my travel plans again, but if I were particularly vulnerable for any reason--pre-exisiting illness, age, etc.--I very well might. It's a valid concern.
On the other hand, my odds of slipping in the bathroom or being in an automobile accident are much greater than of contracting Zika. So, er, that's the good news? :P
My DH is a math guy, so the statistical odds of something happening are extremely relevant to him. I am a psychologist gal, so the "feeling" of danger is more salient to me. We try to balance each other's tendencies!
Kay, nuff virus talk. Back to the fun stuff!

Mindi, I was holding back mentioning Guillan Barre. I didn't want to freak people out. But yes The mention of GB will freak out anyone in medicine. It's horrible. I think the CDC is purposefully not mentioning it in any of their literature about Zika so that people don't freak out. It's rare as you say. One can also get it from flu vaccinations but since we have more of a chance of dying of the flu than of GB I get the flu shot. But I'm not planning any travel to Miami.
 
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Probably a stupid question Pbp, but I am going to ask any way,.
What marks one out as being a regular customer of the brand.
I am really bad at not wearing my stuff in general, for fear of spoiling etc, and even more so when on holiday, so although I may well be considered a "regular", if I am not wearing any "H" would that be a negative.
Just interested as I am hoping that a Paris trip may be in the not too distant future and I would like to experience FSH, even just for a look rather than "scoring".

Afaik, fsh can see sales records of clients worldwide, with a certain degree of approximation (sales data is not that accurate after all).

I'd say that probably a good attitude, politeness and respect work best. I read the Paris thread and i am shocked by some of the behaviors, arrogant expectations, pushiness and overall lack of civilized approach to that experience.
 
Probably a stupid question Pbp, but I am going to ask any way,.
What marks one out as being a regular customer of the brand.
I am really bad at not wearing my stuff in general, for fear of spoiling etc, and even more so when on holiday, so although I may well be considered a "regular", if I am not wearing any "H" would that be a negative.
Just interested as I am hoping that a Paris trip may be in the not too distant future and I would like to experience FSH, even just for a look rather than "scoring".

Capri, I responded to you privately. I'm sure that anything that I say will be picked apart and scrutinized if I say it publicly. It's really obvious when you see the regular Hermes customers at fsh. We look the part. And it has nothing to do with race.
 
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I would agree that attitude is most of the battle at FSH. Of course, sometimes an SA will be cross--or yes, just a nasty person--and nothing you can do will make the experience a good one. But an awareness that the SA/client relationship in France is NOT identical to that in other nations is a good start. A commitment to using at least a few words of French doesn't hurt either. (I speak terrible French, so I've learned to say, "I'm so sorry, I don't speak French well," in French. :p) And one doesn't have to fawn, but appreciative and certainly civil behavior is a must. When I walked into FSH for the first time during my last visit to Paris some years ago, I was immediately confronted with the sight of a client berating an SA about not producing the bag she wanted. From the facial expression and body language of the SA, the ill-advisedness of this approach was crystal clear. And sure enough, when the client turned away, the SA exchanged an eye roll with a colleage. Professional? Perhaps not. But deal with that sort of rudeness all day, every day, and even the sweetest temperament will sour.
 
Capri, I responded to you privately. I'm sure that anything that I say will be picked apart and scrutinized if I say it publicly. It's really obvious when you see the regular Hermes customers at fsh. We look the part. And it has nothing to do with race.

Whoops, i may have said something publicly that will be picked apart and scrutinized :-)
Oh well, it would not be the first time, nor the last!
 
Whoops, i may have said something publicly that will be picked apart and scrutinized :-)
Oh well, it would not be the first time, nor the last!

[emoji23][emoji23][emoji23] I'm just not in the mood at the moment for a huge discussion of Hermes politics. It's a touchy subject.

I think it's highly possible that they secretly tag us with microchips like dogs once we are properly indoctrinated to the brand.
 
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[emoji23][emoji23][emoji23] I'm just not in the mood at the moment for a huge discussion of Hermes politics. It's a touchy subject.

I think it's highly possible that they secretly tag us with microchips like dogs once we are properly indoctrinated to the brand.

Oh, I get it. I am just not that careful!

I am lucky under this point of view. Bs and Ks aren't for me (weight, lifestyle), therefore i am relatively "free".
I was asked a couple of times if i was interested in a bag, and to the astonishment of the SA, i declined. There is a perverse sense of satisfaction in being able to do that.
 
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