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I just think it's amazing how people don't take a moment to read and absorb the culture of the forum, I don't think it's hostile at all but it is 10 years old and full of so much information. I used to love that thread for the stories but it's too much with the same question or after a bag "score" :rolleyes: the next 5 questions, what did you buy, what nationality are you/the SA, what else did you ask for. It's like if you get a bag you need to write a dissertation about the experience just to head off the question. I wish the mods would do a real FAQ (not like my joke one) and point them to it like they do on Authenticity-not that it helps much but at least there's a place they can look.
That's why I suggested doing a "Top Ten" thread for Paris. But calling it a FAQ thread makes way more sense.
 
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Just a suggestion: if threads are annoying or repetitive, perhaps ignore them? :angel:

Hey Mistikat! I love the Paris stories though, I don't want to miss them but as you moderate the Authenticate This Bag thread, doesn't it get so annoying having to say the same thing again and again? :flowers:

I respect your call to delete the posts but a FAQ for that thread would help a lot. It riles me up to hear newer members whine when they're specifically told the info they seek exists-they only have to read it.

And just out of curiosity, when I was new most of the threads were closed and restarted when they went over 1000 pages, is that not needed with the new formatting? If they were less dense, would the search function find more current info easily?
 
Hey Mistikat! I love the Paris stories though, I don't want to miss them but as you moderate the Authenticate This Bag thread, doesn't it get so annoying having to say the same thing again and again? :flowers:

I respect your call to delete the posts but a FAQ for that thread would help a lot. It riles me up to hear newer members whine when they're specifically told the info they seek exists-they only have to read it.

And just out of curiosity, when I was new most of the threads were closed and restarted when they went over 1000 pages, is that not needed with the new formatting? If they were less dense, would the search function find more current info easily?

Before I answer (and it's relative to your question), have you read the first post in the authentication threads?
 
:smile: As you probably realize, even though it's in the thread title and people are frequently directed to that post, it often doesn't happen. You can certainly ask someone to read something. That doesn't mean they will. If someone wants to write a FAQ for the Paris thread, they are more than welcome to do so. But it doesn't mean people will read it or that the same questions won't be asked repeatedly.

Re thread length, the forum can now handle much longer threads. That actually happened before the new software. And while creating a new thread might make it less cumbersome, it practically guarantees question repetition as members likely won't search for previous/closed threads. It's also a reason threads on the same subject are merged.

As for the Paris thread, I guess the conclusion is that sometimes you do have to repeat the same things....repeatedly. :p Or, members can choose to ignore anything to which they don't want to respond. Hope that clarifies things.
 
:smile: As you probably realize, even though it's in the thread title and people are frequently directed to that post, it often doesn't happen. You can certainly ask someone to read something. That doesn't mean they will. If someone wants to write a FAQ for the Paris thread, they are more than welcome to do so. But it doesn't mean people will read it or that the same questions won't be asked repeatedly.

Re thread length, the forum can now handle much longer threads. That actually happened before the new software. And while creating a new thread might make it less cumbersome, it practically guarantees question repetition as members likely won't search for previous/closed threads. It's also a reason threads on the same subject are merged.

As for the Paris thread, I guess the conclusion is that sometimes you do have to repeat the same things....repeatedly. :p Or, members can choose to ignore anything to which they don't want to respond. Hope that clarifies things.

i appreciate your response and your patience with those threads. that makes sense about the thread but i do miss the "go to" box where you could jump pages when they get really long.

i will try to practice ignoring and scrolling past! and i did read your whole reply [emoji6]
 
It is nice to read experiences at FSH and the joy or (unfortunate) disappointment to achieve their HG purchase
It is also a memory and possibly something not found at home
For me it is cynical though
I do not have to travel to a mothership store to achieve the same happiness as buying from my local boutique and the interaction between the SA & me
I'm sure I totally missed the point!
Regardless, if someone wants to show their pleasure, ... I'm happy for them & their special find
 
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ITA, MrsO, and find the repetitious questions about how to "score" to be annoying and rather lazy, or at least entitled (I am so special that I can't be bothered to do any RESEARCH!). A side note: I think some of the issues people encounter at FSH are cultural. French "customer service" is NOT the same as Asian customer service. I have read descriptions of shopping in--I think it was Tokyo H?--where, when the doors open, the sales staff lines up and bows as the customers file in. In French culture, the concept of salespeople being obsequious is NOT embraced. Rather, shop owners/salespeople are the experts, hold the keys to the kingdom, and expect to be treated as such. Neither style is inherently better, but it is certainly jarring to be confronted with the opposite of what one is used to. I've read tales of shoppers in Paris being lectured quite irritably by SAs about their choices: "You DON'T want to buy that! That's foolish! You want to buy THIS!" Everyone traveling to any other country should do some basic cultural research. It is both common sense and common courtesy.

Well said!![emoji106]
 
It is nice to read experiences at FSH and the joy or (unfortunate) disappointment to achieve their HG purchase
It is also a memory and possibly something not found at home
For me it is cynical though
I do not have to travel to a mothership store to achieve the same happiness as buying from my local boutique and the interaction between the SA & me
I'm sure I totally missed the point!
Regardless, if someone wants to show their pleasure, ... I'm happy for them & their special find

Karen,

I got bags from France before but not in FSH. Other than the excitement there's also savings. I save about 30% on a Birkin, compared with getting one in US.

I am happy for their success but I agree with you that sometimes it becomes a bit overwhelming. People get angry or frustrated or annoyed by Hermes appointment system etc. I guess it's a personal trait. Probably not everyone could just let go and enjoy the rest of their trip. [emoji3]
 
You are the expert!
I have some RH bags and think there are subtle variations also
I love anything Rouge Hermes
Your pic is beautiful beyond belief
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Thank you but no, I really do not think I am an expert! I have been fortunate to collect just a few pieces and IRL the shade varies. I actually love the red of my Bearn the most. :heart:
 
It is nice to read experiences at FSH and the joy or (unfortunate) disappointment to achieve their HG purchase
It is also a memory and possibly something not found at home
For me it is cynical though
I do not have to travel to a mothership store to achieve the same happiness as buying from my local boutique and the interaction between the SA & me
I'm sure I totally missed the point!
Regardless, if someone wants to show their pleasure, ... I'm happy for them & their special find

Not all stores get as many bags as others. I have been able to find bags at fish that my SA could not get me at home. And I am obviously an all too frequent customer at home. Some of the people in the line are there for that reason, some because they have no store close to them, some to save money and 90% because they just want a birkin and have no intention of buying anything else.

My shopping experiences at fsh have always been delightful no matter what I purchase. Like all Hermes stores they want you to leave happy.
 
Karen,

I got bags from France before but not in FSH. Other than the excitement there's also savings. I save about 30% on a Birkin, compared with getting one in US.

I am happy for their success but I agree with you that sometimes it becomes a bit overwhelming. People get angry or frustrated or annoyed by Hermes appointment system etc. I guess it's a personal trait. Probably not everyone could just let go and enjoy the rest of their trip. [emoji3]

I agree about the savings. Also, the excitement of the whole experience justifies the purchase.
 
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