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Yes!! This has happened to me in dressing rooms also!
Or even worse, I was running in a mini-forest last weekend and suddenly a light drizzle became a torrential downpour, like being under a waterfall for an hour. When I got back to the parking lot there was one other car but no one around so I just decided to change of my wet clothes at the back of the vehicle so I didn't get the whole interior wet. I changed my shorts, no problem, but after taking off my top and bra for a quick change I realized my dry sports bra was way too tight and I got it stuck on my head with one arm in and one arm out. Only then did I realize there was some poor guy waiting at the end of the parking lot in the pouring rain, with his back turned waiting for me to finish getting my top on! It was completely impossible so I just jumped in the front seat and bent over to hide and eventually managed to wrestle the bra off. At that point I just gave up and threw on a tank top...and to my surprise...rat a tat tat...this guy was knocking on my window wanting to have a laugh about it. Ok, I smiled and drove away immediately!
OMG! :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
 
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Lololol! You make a good point. I should probably keep a Dremel in my bag so I could cut them off if necessary. :crybaby:Unless some passerby happened to notice me weeping and take pity. You kind of hate to have to rely on the kindness of strangers though to get you out of your footwear.

Oh my gosh. I wonder if this is why I never wear my Love bracelet?!?! Maybe I have Love claustrophobia.

Re: the bootjack. All of my purchased riding boots after "the incident" have been back-zip, but I still need a jack to get them off easily. We also use it for Wellies. DH wears Le Chameau and they're hard to get off too.



Well that's the thing. Tall boots were invented ages ago when everyone who could afford riding boots had a valet or maid. You'd never dream of pulling off your own boots. On the Vogel site it says that they will make your boots with a zipper (it used to be they wouldn't) but they recommend that if you don't need zippers not to get them. Presuming I'm sure, that you have a few footmen (I wonder if that's where that term comes from) hanging around and available to pull your boots off.



Hi! Welcome! Thanks so much for that recommendation. I much prefer something on my legs as well.
MY footman is a dear. But I would hesitate to refer to him as "lackey" or "flunky"!!! http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?search=footman&searchmode=none
 
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Here's a cute little French brand I just read about:
http://www.sezane.com/us/e-shop/paris-selection-shoes

They have some fairly nice ankle boots and heels. Their "high" heels are a practical 3.3" (my max now is 3.5").

Rolling on the floor laughing in my ankle boots dear. Wait until you get to the late 40s.

LOL, Cygne! It only gets better!

Rolling on the floor laughing. Wait until you get to your 60s. When I wear my heels to entertainment events, I am the only one not in orthopedic sandals.

Uh oh....! I should just not buy shoes and go to a podiatrist and pay for those expensive, custom made orthotics. But this means that I'd probably have to re-do my entire shoe wardrobe since I'd have to buy a larger size to accommodate. :oh:

Genie, here are the two pairs of louboutin boots that I bought last winter:

Karistrap. Great with jeans. They can work with my ankle pants too. Not with skirts. They definitely have a certain vibe. They are substantial looking and have a bit if a motto vibe.

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These are pretty. Love those ankle boots.

Do report back about the Gemi boots. They look a lot like the saint laurents and leather is probably a bit more useful than suede. I'm going to have to spray the heck out if these with water proof spray.

I solved the saks issue. I found a different promotion that's even a bit better. The half size larger is in its way. Tomorrow the otk boots arrive. DH and dear chihuahua think I'm nuts.
Will do! I'm hoping they work out for me. I like the look of them a lot.

Oh, I'm so glad you solved the Saks issue. Yah for saving money! Oooh, OTK boots! It's funny that we're boot shopping now when it's not really boot season (I think we can cram a few more weeks of wearing ankle boots, though). I suppose it's better to be prepared than not (plus all those stylish Parisian women last month made me want to ankle-boot-shop). :p We won't have to scramble in late September.

This arch support info is interesting. I rarely wear heels anymore unless they're around a couple inches or less and super chunky. I never heard of the brand you guys are mentioning, my choices are either something made by a podiatrist or the drug store (worthless). So me and my arch thank you all for this discussion.
Your custom inserts probably make your feet so happy! :smile:
 
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Lol, Eagle, I wear them for work. :smile:

I refuse to wear high waisted pants.
In 10 years I will be back in style again
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That's what I said about bootcut jeans. I am confused about which jeans we're supposed to be wearing. High-waisted just looks weird to me since I've lived through the phase once already--it would be hard to do it again. Anyway, isn't there some rule about that? Lol! Skinny jeans seem dated now and at the tail-end of that trend. We've done cut-offs, dragging on the ground, cropped, straight-leg, wide-leg, bootcut, and heaven help us, jeggings. We've done black, metallic, light, acid-washed, thigh-faded, dark, and deconstructed. What the heck else is there?

MY footman is a dear. But I would hesitate to refer to him as "lackey" or "flunky"!!! http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?search=footman&searchmode=none

Lol! Oh, of course, you are so right. Good heavens! Can you imagine running along beside someone's carriage? :shocked: For more than about 20 yards?
 
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Lol, Eagle, I wear them for work. :smile:



That's what I said about bootcut jeans. I am confused about which jeans we're supposed to be wearing. High-waisted just looks weird to me since I've lived through the phase once already--it would be hard to do it again. Anyway, isn't there some rule about that? Lol! Skinny jeans seem dated now and at the tail-end of that trend. We've done cut-offs, dragging on the ground, cropped, straight-leg, wide-leg, bootcut, and heaven help us, jeggings. We've done black, metallic, light, acid-washed, thigh-faded, dark, and deconstructed. What the heck else is there?



Lol! Oh, of course, you are so right. Good heavens! Can you imagine running along beside someone's carriage? :shocked: For more than about 20 yards?

Good question about the jeans. I think the superskinny ones are definitely looking dated. I think a slim straight leg cigarette style is the way to go. I'm not doing high waisted jeans. They just don't look good on most people. I tried the cropped kick flares. They were not very flattering either.
 
OK, I pulled out the BJ and the turquoise and I have to admit that they are much closer in color than my mind's eye remembered. They are still different to me on a personal level. The inside the house picture shows more of a difference between them than the outside in the
sun picture. The Bolide is chevre and the Trim is togo.

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The sunlit photo really highlights the color difference, thanks for sharing it.
 
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I adore this cute look on you!

Awwww thank you Nicole!!! [emoji8][emoji8][emoji8][emoji8]

I admit I love the feminine look of a bow at the neck, but since I always wear a necklace I have to place it so the two won't compete. If I'm wearing a 90, I use a trio scarf ring to do something similar.

Usually I wear boots all winter. I have many pairs.

If it's below 30 degrees or snow outside it's fur boots all the way, which is understandably tricky to dress around. Either skinny jeans/pants or leggings, I do a lot of leggings with a white shirt and cashmere sweater over the shirt. Proportion note: if your boots are big the rest of you looks small!!! [emoji1360]

My booties all look pretty much like the Prada pair I've posted. The others are by Rag & Bone. It's the most flattering and versatile shape.

I own one pair of OTK boots, black SW suede with three buckles at the back of the top. I will do them with a dress or skirt, which will cover the top of the boots unless the boots slouch down, which of course looks fine, too.

One pair of knee high boots by Loro Piana. I've owned then for years and wore them three times. They were too expensive. I'm afraid to wear them. They're stunning, though. Also they are my only brown pair.

The rest are pretty much the same height - top of the calf. My rain boots are Givenchy and look just like riding boots so I wear them regardless of weather. These require a little time to take off. If I'm wearing them with a dress (that hits above the knee) sometimes I will put on a nice-colored pair of DHs socks and pull them up so they peek out above the top of the boots which I will match to my scarf.

A few cowboy boots that get pulled out rarely. A motorcycle pair back from when I would take little trips with DH. Another riding-style rain boot. A slouchy pair of Aquatalias. I think that's it.
 
Awwww thank you Nicole!!! [emoji8][emoji8][emoji8][emoji8]

I admit I love the feminine look of a bow at the neck, but since I always wear a necklace I have to place it so the two won't compete. If I'm wearing a 90, I use a trio scarf ring to do something similar.

Usually I wear boots all winter. I have many pairs.

If it's below 30 degrees or snow outside it's fur boots all the way, which is understandably tricky to dress around. Either skinny jeans/pants or leggings, I do a lot of leggings with a white shirt and cashmere sweater over the shirt. Proportion note: if your boots are big the rest of you looks small!!! [emoji1360]

My booties all look pretty much like the Prada pair I've posted. The others are by Rag & Bone. It's the most flattering and versatile shape.

I own one pair of OTK boots, black SW suede with three buckles at the back of the top. I will do them with a dress or skirt, which will cover the top of the boots unless the boots slouch down, which of course looks fine, too.

One pair of knee high boots by Loro Piana. I've owned then for years and wore them three times. They were too expensive. I'm afraid to wear them. They're stunning, though. Also they are my only brown pair.

The rest are pretty much the same height - top of the calf. My rain boots are Givenchy and look just like riding boots so I wear them regardless of weather. These require a little time to take off. If I'm wearing them with a dress (that hits above the knee) sometimes I will put on a nice-colored pair of DHs socks and pull them up so they peek out above the top of the boots which I will match to my scarf.

A few cowboy boots that get pulled out rarely. A motorcycle pair back from when I would take little trips with DH. Another riding-style rain boot. A slouchy pair of Aquatalias. I think that's it.

Sounds like a good boot wardrobe. [emoji108]
 
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I have a super long waist, and I cannot tell you how excited I am that high-waisted pants are back. This time I'm stocking up - for your 10 years in the future when they will all be gone again! ;)
I still have mine from the end of the last go around. So happy they still fit! I prefer a tucked in blouse on me and the best look is with the higher waisted pant. I do chuckle that they are called higher waist since to me, the waist is just normal and where it should be. Bernard Zins and Zanella were my go to brands.
 
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Hi all! I haven't posted in this thread for a few months, but I do peek in occasionally. I read some of the posts on favored cosmetic brands and facial care and I wanted to add a few of mine, just in case anyone was looking for some new products to try. I really enjoyed reading your suggestions.
I will start by saying that I have sensitive skin that is on the oily side and a light-to-medium olive complexion. I do my best to only use products that are either organic or at least where I know what each of the ingredients is.

For skin care I currently use: in the morning, a cleanser by NUDE, it is a balm, in the evening I use a different cleanser by Andalou (citrus kombucha something), it is a gel.
AM: Cleanse with NUDE (I use a clean wash cloth each time I wash my face, I keep a stack specifically for facial cleansing), Sukin Facial Recovery Serum, Mychelle Ultra Hyaluronic Serum, REN Flash Defense Mist, Lapis oil by Herbivore, for eyes, Sukin Eye Serum and Creme Ancienne by Fresh (not crazy about all of the products by Fresh, but this one is very thick and I like a thick eye cream, it works very well). Occasionally, if my skin feels like it needs it, I will use Sukin Rose Hip moisturizer. I have used a physical sunscreen every day since I was 13, I was loyal to Clinique City Block (for many years) and then to La Roche Posay, but now I use one by Andalou topped off with Jane Iredale powder that also carries an SPF.

PM: Cleanse with Andalou, toner also from Andalou (willow bark, only in T zone), Pai Rose Hip oil, Dr. Alkaitis Night Creme, occasionally I will cover these with Phoenix oil from Herbivore. I use the Fresh Ancienne on my eyes and cover that with Evan Healy Wild Carrot eye balm. I use Mychelle Deep Repair Cream instead of the Dr. Alkaitis twice a week.

During the week I use various masks and treatments (I have no schedule as to when I use them, I go by what it seems like my skin needs); Uncle Harry's clay bar, Sukin detox and charcoal masks, Herbivore Blue Tansy and Pink Clay masks, REN Flash Rinse and their enzyme mask as well (I can't remember the name, it's orange and comes in a pump). I have a scrub by NUDE that I enjoy, and one by Sukin. I also use a laser by Tria, it is supposed to stimulate collagen, I don't use it as often as instructed.

In the shower I have similar brands as above, but I love Josh Rosebrook for haircare. My best friend is a stylist, so I have tried many brands, but I keep coming back to Josh Rosebrook. I do recommend Virtue (my friend has a hand in this brand) for the days when you want to straighten your hair...if you have curly hair. Basically, natural days: I use Josh Rosebrook...groomed days: I use Virtue. Windle & Moodie styling cream is amazing for wavy/curly or straight hair. I use organic cold pressed non-hexane coconut oil on my skin before my last rinse and blot off with a towel. Be careful as this can make the tub slippery. Body lotion, right now I am using various oils and/or a frankincense lotion by Shea Moisture.

My makeup brands are Andalou, Well People, Kjaer Weis (Lipstick & blush. Try their cream blush, it is the absolute best), Sunfood lip balm, Pacifica mascara, Troy Surratt lash curler, RMS and Ilia (various items). Conventional brands I use are NARS (various items) and Laura Mercier (eye pencils). I have dark, thick-ish brows and mainly use Zuzu clear gel (aloe based) or BBrowBar (conventional) colored gel. Nail polish, I only really use Ella + Mila, although I have one or two from other brands that are supposed to be 7-free.

I hope that this was helpful to someone, it's so much fun to try out new products and even better if you can get an honest review beforehand. I worked in fashion for most of my younger years and have found the above products to be very impressive for minimal-style makeup and honest, effective skin and hair care. (Oh!!! BTW I am 40, I wanted to add that just to be mindful that what works for me now might change with time...as it has in the past!)
Take care all! :flowers::heart:
great post! Which blush colors did you try from Kjaer Weis? Id like to order one and I can't seem to decide between blossoming or embrace, all the swatches look so different! Im beige 20 in chanel foundation if that means anything!
 
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GK, you must have one huge closet/wardrobe to have stuff from years ago. Good thinking.
lol! Many bedrooms, so many closets. You should see the winter/summer wardrobe switch around to my main bedroom closet. My DH calls it the perp walk. The worst is when I forget which closet has what I want and it turns into a treasure hunt.
 
I would think your wardrobe would be all season where you live.
Nope. I pretend that I have a winter/fall wardrobe just like you do :smile: Cold weather is relative, I know. What I think is cold, is tropical compared to other places on the planet, but it did get cold for us this winter and I was able to wear the heavier things I have. The funniest comment I ever received regarding this was from a woman I knew high school in New York, who I ran into as a sales person at the local Bloomies. I was looking at a long wool coat and was thinking out loud as to whether I would ever wear it. Her comment to me was a question...."don't you ever leave the state?" So the answer is that if I do venture outside the state or to colder areas of this state, i am prepared!:p

However, there are certain things that are all season here that do make shopping easier. I bought the Robot jacket in black with the thought that it is an all year around jacket for this climate.
 
Nope. I pretend that I have a winter/fall wardrobe just like you do :smile: Cold weather is relative, I know. What I think is cold, is tropical compared to other places on the planet, but it did get cold for us this winter and I was able to wear the heavier things I have. The funniest comment I ever received regarding this was from a woman I knew high school in New York, who I ran into as a sales person at the local Bloomies. I was looking at a long wool coat and was thinking out loud as to whether I would ever wear it. Her comment to me was a question...."don't you ever leave the state?" So the answer is that if I do venture outside the state or to colder areas of this state, i am prepared!:p

However, there are certain things that are all season here that do make shopping easier. I bought the Robot jacket in black with the thought that it is an all year around jacket for this climate.

It must be a bit easier. Although I'll admit that I don't focus too much on summer clothes. They aren't very useful here. But I can justify more cashmeres.

DH wants me to update the insurance. This requires me to Scarf/ jewelry/ bag math that I'd rather not do. [emoji15]
 
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