so I've been going in every week and still no luck..cold shoulders and said they have non. I've never been treated like this and I am kinda annoyed.
Since you often drop by the store, try to find an SA that seems friendly and that you have a rapport with and talk to her/him about the products. Ask questions about leather, color, etc... even if you don't get the bag, you will get a lot of interesting information. Perhaps in the process of learning about Hermes, a little something will pique your interest. In any case, the next time you come back, you can approach the same SA and he/she will likely remember you (they're really great at remembering names). That's how you build a relationship with the SA. It's not all about throwing money at them - many of us aren't swimming in so much money that we can waste it on bags and things we don't want. A lot were just lucky enough to find an Associate that we like and who seem to like us (regardless of how much we spend).