I have blue agate in vintage size. They are heavier than sweet size earrings but still comfortable for me. I don’t wear any earrings to sleep/overnight though. I do prefer the french clip backing on vintage earrings. They are much more convenient for me and easier to place on and take off. I purposely pick turquoise sweet earrings for the pop of color. Neutral color in sweet size will lost on me. I will recommend try on RG vintage size in boutique since they are open for ordering. If you don’t like it, you can always decline after try on the earrings. And use the fund for other sweet earrings. I hope you find a pair of earrings that is up to your likings.