happy4:
If something gets under your skin like a craving for a Hermes bag, there is no other cure than to suck it up and go for it. You won't be happy with anything else you try to substitute, and life is too short to settle for second or third best. Aim for your dreams!!!
Do yourself a favor and buy only from a reputable seller, preferably a storefront. I've been ripped off on eBay before by various sellers peddling fakes, and it's getting old. You really don't have much recourse against them. Sure, you can complain, or give them bad feedback, but they only change their user names and come right back onto the auctions anyway.