oh labrillant, thank you for your input! i'll keep that in mind when i talk to my jeweler...I do like the idea of bezel still for protection and smooth surface....maybe i can see some of his other rings if he carries any bezel and see if it reduces the brilliance. I have a set of cz studs in bezel and also on prong and I always thought prong set was more sparkly...but then it's cz so =\
and jordanjordan, yes! i do like my bezel set earrings too! but i feel like part of the reason i like it for professional occasions (work-wise) is b/c i felt it was sparkly without being too sparkly.......................but seriously it could be all in my head.