I can totally relate, but only for some of my bags. I have a tendency to wait too long, and when I finally decide on it, it's too late. Then, I go into the obsessive mode of asking any SA to track it down (and my personal experience is that they don't really like to do that because I've never had success using that route) or calling random stores myself. If that fails, I scour eBay....but usually at that point, I think the momentum dies down a bit for me. On the ones that I am successful, maybe a few of them I regret.