I don't. I'm single, pay ALL my own bills and expenses, and don't have anyone to buy me nice things
that being said, I try and keep my bag habit within a reasonable limit. That is, I buy what I like, at a price I'm comfortable with, and use them.
Bags that I don't use, or maybe don't care much for anymore, I sell. My recent rule is one in, one out. I've tried to stick to that as much as I can. I'm finally in a place financially where I CAN afford to splurge. To me, its no different than someone who spends money on stuff for their home, car, or anything else they like. I don't buy high high end. My obsession is kate spade, so most of mine are hers, with a handful of vintage
Coach, and a couple of Dooneys thrown in. And my latest gem; the $800 Catherine Malandrino I found new for $50. I also sell not only bags, but clothing etc on Poshmark and a couple other sites,, so any earnings from that, plus my semi regular dog sitting, go into a separate account, and that's what I use to buy nice things.
I did sit down the other day and make a list of how many bags I've bought in the past year (close to 25) and how much I've spent on them. Plus how much I made selling what I had. I spent about $1350 on all, and made back a little more than half, selling some of my others. It fits in my budget, therefore i don't feel guilty one bit.
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