I am a sales associate at a high end dep. store. At mine, we CAN see. I know some other department stores don't have this technology/capability that we do. But we can see. Everything. Everything you've ever purchased from our company, even at our off-price stores, online, etc. We can see everything you've returned (even if it isn't our return, even if its online or at another store/state/brand under our umbrella of ownership) and we can even see the store and register in which you returned it at. This is all so that we can better serve you, knowing past purchases and what doesn't work for you helps us serve you better. However, it can make S/A's salty. I recommend facing her, take the return to her, explain the situation. She's spent time getting to know you through this process, maybe she can recommend something better that you will love and recoup some of her losses. It happens. Even WE return things. But you have to respect that every return does cut out of their paychecks. Repay that with loyalty however, and they won't be so upset. Shop with them instead of online, do what you can to be loyal and they won't mind when the occasional item doesn't work out.