Desperate need for advice

[Juda]

Which size looks better on me for everyday use?
They are both Graff pave butterfly pendant.
The bigger size is more age appropriate (almost 50) but does it look too flashy for an everyday pendant.?
Whereas the smaller looks a bit childish as if borrowed my daughter pendant.
I can't make up my mind.

 

[FunBagz]

I prefer the smaller one. I don’t think it looks childish at all.

 

[LuckyBitch]

They're both gorgeous but I also think the smaller one would be better for everyday use.

 

[verytotes]

I don’t think the big one is “flashy” but i prefer the smaller one. It definitely doesn’t look childish, i think it’s more dainty like it just adds that perfect little hint of sparkle to your overall look.

 

[A1aGypsy]

Smaller one. Doesn’t look childish at all. Looks everyday approprIate

 

[cdtracing]

Both are beautiful but I like the larger one the best.

 

[Juda]

Thank you for your replies.
I feel the smaller size is more discreet but I'm not sure if the size is too trendy.
It is a forever and everyday pendant meaning I want to be able to wear it everyday (too big) Every season ( small with summer clothes).
It has to be perfect and I'm too emotional because I'm buying it in memory of my cat that I lost recently and that I miss terribly.

 

[etoupebirkin]

I bought the ruby and diamond version of the large size because I thought the bigger one was more noticeable than I’d like. The blue sapphire version is another good option.
I wear mine with diamond studs and a ruby and diamond RHR.

 

[Juda]

I bought the ruby and diamond version of the large size because I thought the bigger one was more noticeable than I’d like. The blue sapphire version is another good option.
I wear mine with diamond studs and a ruby and diamond RHR.

Thank you étoupe Birkin for confirming what I already feel : the larger size is not appropriate everywhere.
I prefer the pave one bec of the neutrality of diamond - between the two which one would you advise me to get?

 

[nycgirl79]

Thank you for your replies.
I feel the smaller size is more discreet but I'm not sure if the size is too trendy.
It is a forever and everyday pendant meaning I want to be able to wear it everyday (too big) Every season ( small with summer clothes).
It has to be perfect and I'm too emotional because I'm buying it in memory of my cat that I lost recently and that I miss terribly.

I’m so sorry for your loss - losing a beloved pet is never easy.

I’d definitely go for the smaller pendant, it looks perfect, and not too discreet at all...I actually think it suits your frame better than the larger size!

 

[A1aGypsy]

The smaller one isn’t trendy, it’s too big for that. Trendy pieces are really small and layered. But, even those i think are not trendy if you don’t layer them. However, if something is holding you back, don’t buy it. You’ll find the right tribute.

I’m so so sorry about your fur baby.

 

[Swanky]

I prefer the smaller as well

 

[jyyanks]

From what I'm reading it, it sounds like you prefer the larger one. I think both look lovely on you but if you prefer the larger one, then it buy it and wear it with pride every day. I actually like the larger one and think you can pull it off as an everyday necklace.

 

[MatAllston]

They are both beautiful but it sounds like you love the larger one so go for that one.

 

[livethelake]

I love the larger size (although both sizes can work for you.)
I would shorten the chain a bit, to my eye, it looks a bit long on you.