I have both edith and stam. Edith for work, and stam for going out in replacement of my Bbag. Strictly sticking with these two, Stam is a great choice for a night out. I used to think it looked old fashioned, the whole kisslock and granny purse looking. If you dress like a granny, of course it WILL look like a granny bag. But you're a great looking girl, and I'm sure you rock the house, so Stam is great for you!