yepI'm so conflicted on wether or not to get a medium classic flap bag or a jumbo! On one hand, I'm pretty petite (5'0) and don't want the bag to look weird on me. I would also be using the bag as mainly an evening bag. On the other, I really like the look of bigger bags and I'm worried about fitting everything I want in the medium, I always use a long wallet. Do you think the jumbo looks fine as an evening bag to dinner at a nice restaurant? I would love advice from girls who have been in the same situation on which one they picked or just advice from anyone who has owned either one of these bags!
ALSO: When people refer to m/l are the talking about the medium?

I think you could pull off a jumbo. although it does look awkward if you try to wear it crossbody style though. have you ever watched these videos on youtube? they help a lot
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CeUlGjGIFlQ