Thank you so much for your opinion, much appreciated!
I did actually try on the medium size but I felt it was too big. I sort of like that the small, as you say, looks more like a bracelet. I'm just worried it will still look
too small on me

I guess I need to try them on again. My problem is there is no Cartier where I live, only a reputable store that sells them and the two times I've been there, they've only had one or the other so I couldn't really compare.
I am also considering the Tank Solo in Gold with black leather strap. In fact, that was the watch that started my wanting a watch ... it would also solve the "problem" of hardware because I only ever wear YG jewelry so I'd be over the whole "does a steel watch go with YG jewelry"-thing. It's just that I think the Tank Francaise is
really,
really pretty