By matching I just mean maybe the same band, dial color etc. they don’t have to be the exact same watch.
Everyone is different, while your DH may prefer steel, my husband is all about the bling. He has a 12 carat wedding band, large diamond studs, a huge diamond bezel watch that’s around 10 carats, and a 4 carat diamond cross. I’m the one that’s a bit more plain, he had to talk me into a 2.16 solitaire and he happily would’ve gone larger. He is constantly trying to make me match his level but I am a simple girl.