I'm not sure how often youre supposed to get/do botox but all I know is that my GORGEOUS dermatologist has been giving it to herself for the past 10 years. She was a huge advocate of it of course and Jesus...she was gorgeous. ALL OF A SUDDEN she looks horrific. She negative effects of it are finally settling in (after 10 years) and her skin is sunken and looks totally fake...it's kinda hard to explain. She was on the cusp of the botox trend though and I think those effects are just starting to hit people, since she was a big user hers is really obvious. I'd just think about how long you want to use it for. Are you going to be a continual user? If not..what's the point? 41 is NOT old and I'm sure you are beautiful and aging very naturally. You might just want to think about how much worse it can make you look in the long run. Say you become a big user, if the neg. effects start showing on you you might look at other women your age and think that they look much better/natural. I think you should just be
you...sans botox