Hey Marie,
I have a Togo 30cm for around 4 years now and yes, it softened considerably. The front flap of the Birkin now flops onto the the back one instead of being able to stand up stiff on its own like it used to when it was new. However, it still holds it shape really well.
I also own a Togo 35cm and tried on a Clemence 35cm and I find that even when the Birkin is brand new, the base of the Clemence Birkin tends to 'spread' out more than a Togo one. I'm assuming it's because Clemence is a heavier/softer leather and hence it tends to slouch more.
As for Epsom, it no doubt holds it shape the best of these 3 leathers. Like the other leathers, it also does soften a little over time (but not as much), so it doesn't look as "cardboard" stiff as it does when it was new. However, a problem wth Epsom I find, is that because it is not as supple, creases tend to develop at the sides/areas where the leather is being 'bent' and I also find the corners of this leather more susceptible to wear.
I still love mine nonetheless, but I'd suggest getting Togo/Clemence leather for easier maintainence.
Hope this helps.
Hi there - "...the front flap of the Birkin flops to the back..." Do you mean the piece where the turn lock is attached to or the actual flap of the bag? I am asking because I am considering buying an older bag and noticed a slight flopping of the part of the bag where the turn lock is attached to. Thanks!
