I have do have a history here. So I feel I can comment in that regard. I recall another member, a long time very active
Coach forum member. I have not seen her here in months though, so wondering if she is just not on TPF or moved to another brand. Anyway I won't name her. But she was super indecisive, always bought bags from the outlet, returned, got opinions on something else from people here, bought whatever was suggested, found something wrong, return, repeat. Point being no one ever called her on being indecisive and she seemed to be very well liked here. I think she should show everyone else the same courtesy. Most people come here for feedback because we would drive our family and friend batsh!t crazy since they don't understand our bag obsession