You certainly do see .03 ounces differently as I don't see it at all! You're a pro for sure.
Speaking of baking...
OMG... since you're a baker, search for the Tom Cruise Coconut cake (it's actually a white chocolate coconut bundt cake). I just read about it and think I need to try it. You could probably bake one in 10 minutes.
Back on topic...
I have small ear lobes too, on top of a small ear piercing. For your Alhambra earrings, check to see if the post is in the bottom hole. That's the standard hole, but sometimes, a new earring may have the post in the top hole. Having the post in the bottom hole makes the earring sit higher on the ear lobe.