I think it looks great on you. Before you I see the watch on you, I thought your watch will stick out of your wrist. After seeing the pics, your watch is definitely not big or butch like at all. I do agree that it may take longer to get use to a bigger watch. It takes a while for me to get use to my 31 mm mid size rolex too. lol But if you have doubts, either return it & exchange to a smaller size...but I still think the watch looks great on you! It's still very feminine because of the diamond dial.