2022 Resolution: Shopping my own bag and SLG collection. Anyone else?

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2 Aug - brand showcase: A-F
4 Sept - brand showcase: G-L
11 Sept - brand showcase: M-R
18 Sept - brand showcase: S-Z
25 Sept - totes
2 Oct - satchels
9 Oct - crossbodies inc WOCS
16 Oct - shoulder bags
23 Oct - bucket bags
30 Oct - clutches
6 Nov - backpacks
13 Nov - bags that don’t count
20 Nov - pairing bags with shoes
27 Nov - pairing bags with other accessories
4 Dec - bag storage
11 Dec - SLGs
18 Dec - charms

Challenges:
Sept - bags in different locations
Oct - Halloween: wear orange or black bags
Nov - International Merlot Day: wear wine coloured bags or pair bags with wine.
Dec - use the bag.
 
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I am 4 bags-in and 2 bags-out away from purse peace. Three of the desired bags are Hermes and for the fourth one, the brand does not matter. The one that done not matter is the travel bag I have discussed at nauseam here. I expect to buy the epi bag I have discussed. Just giving myself a week or two to change my mind.

Of the other three bags in, I know exactly what I want when it comes to 2. Since they are not bags Hermes has made for many years, I have to wait for someone who has one to sell it. These are the two I want and they have to be in these exact colors and size.

Sadly I have had a chance to buy both of these. The orange picotin was for sale in the Paris flea market. I saw it one day and took DH back to see it the next day. When we went back, it was on hold for Andy Worhal's muse, Baby Jane Holzer. DH is obsessed with wanting me to have that bag. He thinks it expresses my personality better than all my dowdy lady bags. I always felt that Baby Jane stole my bag.

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The other one was for sale on the Real Real. It is a 32cm Massai cut. I had never paid much attention to this style until I saw it in this color. I hesitated because it had a zipper close and, in general, I hate zippers. Someone else snapped it up. Hermes did not make a lot of bags in this style. They made a lot of Massai bags (much deeper) but not a lot of Massai cuts (shallow). It is probably stupid for me to continue to pursue this bag as I will probably seldom carry it, but I want a light neutral. It is the collector in me. I want all the spots filled.

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Wanting these two is not especially disruptive to my mental well being. I just check all the sellers once or twice a day. A two minute job. But it does keep me searching and resisting getting sucked down another rabbit hole.

What is disruptive is wanting something and not being able to figure out what bag would satisfy my requirements. The right travel bag has been an extremely disruptive to purse peace. The fourth bag-in is just perplexing. In Hermes there is a leather called chevre de comomandel (CDC). It is goat skin that has a patterning that people refer to as a spine (probably was on the goat's spine). It grosses some people out, but I love it. The first Hermes bag that really excited me was a Kelly in CDC and I have never gotten over that lust. CDC was mostly used in Kellys or Birkins which I don't want. I have a Birkin and a Kelly (and previously had 2 Kellys). I don't want another of either. I have only seen the leather used in 2 other styles which I am not wild about. I keep hoping to find some random bag that I like in CDC. Hermes does a lot of random things and I am hoping they made some small bag I like in raisin CDC. Here is an example of CDC.
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Moving on from what I want to what to get rid of. The two that I plan to sell are definitely disruptive. One of them I love (Sac 404), but because it is so ridiculously old fashioned it is hard to carry. Too big for a date bag and obviously does not look right with my cut off jean shorts. The quality is mind blowing. The style makes me feel like I am taking a trip on the Orient Express. Other than on the Orient Express, where can I carry this bag? I am going to list it on ebay in the fall. I find that Oct-Nov is a good time to sell, especially for dark bags. I don't like to list things when we are going to be in and out of town. The disruptive aspect is I plan to sell the Sac 404, and then I hold it, and I am in love all over again. So why don't I keep it? Because having too many bags stresses me out.

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This bag may be saved from the chopping block by my acquisition of this bag charm. The bag charm looks the best on this bag and the charm does tone down the bag's severity. We will see.
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The last one is a Trim. It just doesn't feel good on my arm. I paid too much for it and it was non returnable. To date I have never lost money on a bag sale because I bought at good prices. The price I paid for it would not be unreasonable if it were pristine, but it has some scratches so I would go through some crap selling it. Hermes buyers are insane when it comes to wanting pristine. I plan to hold it about 5 years and wait for prices to increase more. I wish I could talk myself into selling it and the Sac 404 at the same time. I expect to make $600 on the Sac 404 which would cover the loss on the Trim, but I can't talk myself into it. I am kicking this can down the road. I am going to try carry it and see if it grows on me.

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I can sum up my bag angst: (1) What to do about a travel bag (2) Is today the day that someone will list my Picotin or my Massai Cut (3) Why can't I find a bag in raisin CDC that I like and (4) Should I sell or keep the Sac 404 or the Trim. After the travel bag problem which I think is on the verge of being solved, the sell or keep problems vex me the most. I could nudge the sell or keep dilemmas along if I made a point of carrying those 2 bags a lot. That would force a decision.

I totally adore your black "old fashioned" bag. She is beautiful and imo works with everything from nighty via posh to cut off jeans (not that I´d wear them... my legs aren´t what they used to be anymore...) I´d keep her!
 
I just had two epiphanies I want to share. I have been pondering why I am bothered by having more bags than I carry. It is neither a space nor a money issue. Partly it is the overwhelming burden of perfectionism. The bags I am considering selling are not absolutely perfect for me. They can be perfect bags but not perfect for me. Any minor thing that bothers me in the least little way (size, weight, color, feel) is fatal. I am also bothered that I made a judgment mistake in buying the bag that is not absolutely perfect for me, even though there was no way I could know in advance that it would not be perfect for me. The great is not supposed to be the enemy of the good, but in my purse collection, it is. I need to make room in my collection for the good.

My second realization that I am not bothered by other things that I buy and don't use. DH and I have a magnificent pool table that we bought over 30 years ago and don't use. We have moved it multiple times, refinished it, re-felted it and bought the table its own $$$ expensive room in terms of extra square footage in the house. We have a swimming pool we use about once a year. We have a home gym that gets used every other year. Last summer I bought a tricked out Webber grill and have never used it. Do I feel bad about any of these? No. Do I feel stressed out that I don't use any of these things. No. Why should I hold my bags to a higher standard?

Your thoughts could have been uttered by my DS- not regarding bags, but other specific items dear to him. I absolutely feel what you mean.
 
I just had two epiphanies I want to share. I have been pondering why I am bothered by having more bags than I carry. It is neither a space nor a money issue. Partly it is the overwhelming burden of perfectionism. The bags I am considering selling are not absolutely perfect for me. They can be perfect bags but not perfect for me. Any minor thing that bothers me in the least little way (size, weight, color, feel) is fatal. I am also bothered that I made a judgment mistake in buying the bag that is not absolutely perfect for me, even though there was no way I could know in advance that it would not be perfect for me. The great is not supposed to be the enemy of the good, but in my purse collection, it is. I need to make room in my collection for the good.

My second realization that I am not bothered by other things that I buy and don't use. DH and I have a magnificent pool table that we bought over 30 years ago and don't use. We have moved it multiple times, refinished it, re-felted it and bought the table its own $$$ expensive room in terms of extra square footage in the house. We have a swimming pool we use about once a year. We have a home gym that gets used every other year. Last summer I bought a tricked out Webber grill and have never used it. Do I feel bad about any of these? No. Do I feel stressed out that I don't use any of these things. No. Why should I hold my bags to a higher standard?
You are right. I am going to think on this more.
 
Hi, not sure :doh: if I’m posting on the right thread. (Please redirect me if I am)

So, here’s the sitch: I’m looking a like a work/day bag and currently choosing between the Saint Laurent Men’s Large Black SDJ and the Thom Browne‘s Black Pebbled Calfskin Large Duet Tote.

I really like the form of these two and especially because it can fit my work laptop and both has a shoulder strap (i have occasional contact dermatitis on my hands)

I’m pretty torn…:confused1: any advice?
The SdJ has a little something the other doesn’t. I think it is a more versatile style that would compliment a greater range of outfits.
 
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I don’t know, but I figure I’ll know it when I see it.

I‘m not at Bag Peace - I feel I have too many and it makes me nervous and fidgety.
But every time I think that I should sell something, I handle it and think “Dammit - I really like this!”
But - I think of selling because there’s a small something I don’t love about the bag(s).

1) Hermes Drag II - beautiful bag, glorious color (Rouge H - the redder shade too), lovely goatskin lining, it’s lovely and hard to find. But - it’s bigger than I need, it’s hand or arm carry only (not that I hate that but), it’s a bit boxy, and I have the TB McGraw, the Ferragamo Studio, and a Goyard in red.
So I think about selling it - but… it’s beautiful!

2) Dior Be Dior - I adore the leather, the silver handle and back pocket are so fun, leather lining, beautifully made, can be carried by hand or with shoulder strap. But, it’s bigger than I’d like and it’s heavy. And I have the H Dalvy and the Vibrato Picotin in blue.
So I think about selling it - but… it’s beautiful!

3) LV Pallas - it’s a great bag, and I like that it’s my ‘dark brown’ bag. But it’s huge, it’s a black hole inside, and it doesn’t have much structure.
But Mr Cookie bought it for me, so it stays.

4) I have 9 black bags - 5 are Every Day bags, 4 are more seasonal or travel bags. I think I will list my MZ Wallace Micro Sutton, because I don’t need 2 black crossbody bags… or do I? < sigh >
Don’t sell the Drag!!!!!! I own it vicariously through you!
 
Perhaps the hobo, since at the time, I really wanted a metallic mini cabat (but was unwilling to pay). I’m not really a hobo person, but 8 keep thinking if I ever go to a dive bar in Brooklyn and am wearing jeans it might be ideal . .. that hasn’t happened in years Lol

@Cordeliere, you have a very pampered pool table :smile:

I burst out laughing when I read that you were saving a bag in case you ever went to a dive bar again. DH gave me the expectant look that says "you have to explain what's so funny." Then I read part of your post to him and he didn't get it. I had to explain why it was funny to me. Then in best DH form, he said "you need to add a dive bar bag to your collection. We are more likely to go to a dive bar than her." See how the purse forum is enabling?

Yes our pool table is very pampered. After that post I did a rough calculation of how much the pool table's room cost and decided it was almost as much as the original cost of a Himalayan birkin from the store--not reseller. Then I immediately told myself, don't think about that. We keep the table and take care of it because we had it custom made about 3 months after we got married and we superstitiously believe if we got rid of it, we would end up in divorce.
 
I burst out laughing when I read that you were saving a bag in case you ever went to a dive bar again. DH gave me the expectant look that says "you have to explain what's so funny." Then I read part of your post to him and he didn't get it. I had to explain why it was funny to me. Then in best DH form, he said "you need to add a dive bar bag to your collection. We are more likely to go to a dive bar than her." See how the purse forum is enabling?

Yes our pool table is very pampered. After that post I did a rough calculation of how much the pool table's room cost and decided it was almost as much as the original cost of a Himalayan birkin from the store--not reseller. Then I immediately told myself, don't think about that. We keep the table and take care of it because we had it custom made about 3 months after we got married and we superstitiously believe if we got rid of it, we would end up in divorce.
The Trim could pass for a dive bar bag….not that I am trying to enable you…:lol:
 
This vintage Jaguar bag is my absolute travel bag. It´s thick buffalo leather and sturdy as a tank. I can pack it as full and heavy as I want - once it weighed in at 4.5 kilos- and it does not stress it at all. It has been under my feet in the car endless times and never suffered.
It´s too small for a laptop, though. But I own several bigger Goldpfeil bags from the same material- from halfway elegant shapes up to grandma´s shopper style- that would be big enough. Mine were all between 25€ and 75€ and worth every Euro.
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What a cool bag. Your relationship with it is special.
 
The Trim could pass for a dive bar bag….not that I am trying to enable you…:lol:
Since the internet can answer all questions from the banal to the existential, I googled "appropriate clothes for dive bar" not really expecting there to be an answer. But there was.


I learned that cross bodies are the thing. I will put the Trim's long strap on her and take her to a dive bar and see if she shines. :lol:
 
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