2022 Resolution: Shopping my own bag and SLG collection. Anyone else?

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2 Aug - brand showcase: A-F
4 Sept - brand showcase: G-L
11 Sept - brand showcase: M-R
18 Sept - brand showcase: S-Z
25 Sept - totes
2 Oct - satchels
9 Oct - crossbodies inc WOCS
16 Oct - shoulder bags
23 Oct - bucket bags
30 Oct - clutches
6 Nov - backpacks
13 Nov - bags that don’t count
20 Nov - pairing bags with shoes
27 Nov - pairing bags with other accessories
4 Dec - bag storage
11 Dec - SLGs
18 Dec - charms

Challenges:
Sept - bags in different locations
Oct - Halloween: wear orange or black bags
Nov - International Merlot Day: wear wine coloured bags or pair bags with wine.
Dec - use the bag.
 
Thanks for the heads up! I don’t carry anything heavy, but every bit adds up. I have always thought it is a pretty bag. I may go check it out here in person to look/touch/hold/etc if I can, since I am going by pictures and dimensions. I am sooooo excited to see Paris!!!!! Squeeeee!!!!!! That is one of the reasons I am doing pre-shopping online, so I can get my special bag but still have time to see the sights.
What about Moynat and Delvaux as French luxury brands? I love some of the Moynat bags, although they discontinued a bag that I have coveted for a long time (the Pauline).
 
I say keep the Madison. :tup: Black is a classic that is great to have in your wardrobe, but the pink is a happy color and the design is classic, so you can use it for a long time.
It's a lovely color! :love: I think you'll regret it if you don't get it. And you already have planned events to wear it to. I vote to get it. After all, this Thread isn't about having a total Ban on buying new bags.
If you love it and it is in your budget I would keep it. This can easily be worn casually too.
@Katinahat, +1 on the pink bag
Thanks for all the helpful thoughts. I’m definitely going to keep it. I love pink and the combination of the gunmetal hardware works well for me. I know I’ll carry it for the wedding and other events. I’ve got several other pink bags but all quite different shades and styles. It makes me happy to carry such a cheery colour!
 
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What about Moynat and Delvaux as French luxury brands? I love some of the Moynat bags, although they discontinued a bag that I have coveted for a long time (the Pauline).

Delvaux have many shops in France, Paris included but it's a very famous Belgium brand.

Goyard, Faure le Page, Le Tanneur, Longchamps, Perrin and so many others are French, @BowieFan1971 will be spoilt for choice (if she chooses).
 
You can just play dress up in front of the mirror for now. Take a selfie when you put together an outfit you love. That way when you do have somewhere to go , you will remember the look.
Thanks for the great suggestion! Agree that this preparation makes it easy to pull together an outfit when the time comes, whenever that will be.

@BowieFan1971, I know they are not really known for their bags, but Cartier had some wonderful designs: the Cartier Guirlande, and the C de Cartier top handled bag. They are both unavailable anymore on the US site but might be available in Paris. The Guirlande lends itself to more of an evening bag style (although you could do day to evening if you picked one of the larger sizes). The C de Cartier is more of a day time bag. I was eyeing those bags off and on, but now they are no longer available here.
 
I agree. It seems we’re both focusing on healing emotional / psyche as well as getting physically strong. Without being TMI, my issue is I buried / ignored childhood trauma once I got into new happy relationships as an adult. But, burying doesn’t mean dealt with. So, now with all this time on my hands I’m finally doing the work. I’m encouraged by what I’ve read about EMDR. It builds upon the somatic based therapy that has been so helpful thus far.

Also, I have a loved one with Borderline Personality Disorder and DST has been a salvation. I avoided them until recently but hope relationship is possible now. That being said, DBT is supposed to be excellent for a number of purposes.

In any case, I’m discussing this here as mental health care is often a taboo subject and I want to encourage people to be as diligent about that as they are with physical care or finding the perfect bag. :flowers:

Yes. I think some loose fit jeans would be a good bet. But, I like dresses so…:thinking:
You are so right! I have massive respect for your openness and your approach to recovery. Well done for your strength to put yourself in a better position. I am beginning to be more open with others, sharing some of my trauma story, promoting positive mental health and self care strategies.

The joy I’d lost is coming back and I’m finally realising what happened made me the person I am today.

Good luck with your continued journey.
 
@BowieFan1971,
i have only rarely been treated with courtesy at any LV boutique, so always hesitate to go in.

i fele like i am really susceptible to persuasion, impulsive purchases, and FOMO, though, so it’s best for me (and my wallet) to stick with home SAs who know what I have; what looks good; and what I like.
Agreed - my local Dior boutique had really friendly SAs also. I wish I liked the Lady D more but I just can’t bring myself to do it.
Very jealous of you having a SA who knows you do well. Not something I’ve ever experienced but sounds lovely. I think because I buy online quite a lot especially in sales. I once went into LV near where I live and the SA was very courteous showing me a Neverfull that I didn’t buy and not pressurising me.
 
Thanks for the great suggestion! Agree that this preparation makes it easy to pull together an outfit when the time comes, whenever that will be.

@BowieFan1971, I know they are not really known for their bags, but Cartier had some wonderful designs: the Cartier Guirlande, and the C de Cartier top handled bag. They are both unavailable anymore on the US site but might be available in Paris. The Guirlande lends itself to more of an evening bag style (although you could do day to evening if you picked one of the larger sizes). The C de Cartier is more of a day time bag. I was eyeing those bags off and on, but now they are no longer available here.
I looked at Cartier. Will look again. :smile:
 
Delvaux have many shops in France, Paris included but it's a very famous Belgium brand.

Goyard, Faure le Page, Le Tanneur, Longchamps, Perrin and so many others are French, @BowieFan1971 will be spoilt for choice (if she chooses).
Looked at Goyard and Longchamp…nope. Saw 2-3 bags with Le Tannuer I like and saved their boutique addresses near the hotel. Will look at the other two…as well as Moynat. I ruled Delvaux out- not French- and Polene- not my style/size fit.
 
I don’t own any Saint Laurent, so this would be a first. It was the only brand other than Hermès that I liked a decent number of styles. The cat bags by Lanvin are gorgeous but too small. I would buy one of those. Looked at Dior…too much logo and too much quilting/cannage. Just not me…though I have heard great things about their service. I was pleasantly surprised when I stopped in my local boutique to check out the Lady D in person for a friend how welcoming, enthusiastic and just plain nice the SA was.
Dior SAs are nice all over the world in my limited experience. And they seem to be nice and friendly in the same kind of way, which makes me think their customer training is somewhat uniform. There are a lot of dior bags at different price points. @Jereni, there are lots of other bags than LD, though it seems that smaller boutiques dont have as full an assortment as flagships. I like the St. honore; 30 Montaigne box, two that come to mind. There are also limited edition; art bags; and custom. And some of the book totes are gorgeous; some over the top; others girly and frilly. Here are two I tried on recently (I prefer dark tones
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I never thought much of delvaux until I actually went in. Very nice staff and gorgeous, high quality product with some whimsy. same with Moynat, but unlike many tpfers, I’m not a rejane fan. The Gabrielle and the Gabby are Moynat versions of the kelly, if I recall correctly. And Moynat does do beautiful structured bags like a cube etc. here’s a delvaux (my pic doesn’t do it Justice
And my favorite sun glass cases from valextra, a brand which is not always easy to find in the US.
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IMO, my highest quality bag is from Duret.com. He has a tiny storefront in Paris and his workshop is outside of Paris. everything is hand stitched and he is amazing. DH loves his belts. But, as it’s all custom, it’s a lengthy process; you cannot just buy a bag. You sit, you discuss what you want, and he tells you what he thinks. You pick everything from type of skin; choose a hide (H tannery); stitching etc etc. and then he will send you videos of the craftsman cutting, piecing and sewing your bag, step by step. Suede finished crocodile belt and Buffalo Dalmatian bag
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don’t forget Paris is also where you can find amazing fragrance; clothing; fripperies; items for the home; comestibles. There are still local neighborhood shops and smaller designers. There are French sunglasses.

and, of course, don’t forget vintage Shops (collectors square for leather) but also shops for RTW. Fun to visit didier ludot in palais royale and many other places. Years ago, I used to like the area around Place de Vosges for little shops.

@Katinahat, I prefer to buy in person, so I get a sense of how a designer meshes with my own personal taste; and to see the specific item before purchase. I also only Shop where I feel comfy and welcomed. The good part is the SAs get to know me:0; and I love what I buy, so I almost never need to return stuff. When I used to buy more on sale, I found myself making compromises and regretting some purchases. Of course, ideally one could buy mindfully and on sale lol

i do think as a general rule, chanel boutique is more friendly than hermes, but dior is far and away the friendliest. I have had less good service in department store leased spaces for these designers, and even in malls, than in stand alone boutiques.
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and, of course the orginal Pierre herme for cannele, gateau Breton, kouige Aman, macarons. And fauchon, Laduree , Angelina
and fabulous Lebanese and Vietnamese food too

and amazing pans for the kitchen

Dior and chanel fragrances are more expensive in france bc (I am sure I am butchering this explanation) the water used as filler is potable and more expensive and the ingredients are better. Of course Guerlain and Caron. (Caron used to have urn fragrances where you could chose your size and type, and you could even buy special perfume bottles. And Fragonard. There are some exclusives to France. Jovoy is a wonderful perfumer (there are a few others too) Frederic Malle is french. I believe his uncle may have been Dior, not sure. And there are also independent perfumers And chocolates. Special shops for coffee and tea. Mustard. gelato. Cheese.

and, don’t forget for the cost of a premier leather bag, you could also peek into VCA and other jewelers. . . Dior does beautiful fine jewelry. For 6800 usd in the US, there was this wonderful gold bracelet, unique. Under the radar.
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beyond, Hermes and Etro etc. there are wonderful silks and cashmeres. Etc.

and of course, plenty to do, if you do not want to shop lol

forhot to add: if all else fails there is always CDG airport duty free
 
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Very jealous of you having a SA who knows you do well. Not something I’ve ever experienced but sounds lovely. I think because I buy online quite a lot especially in sales. I once went into LV near where I live and the SA was very courteous showing me a Neverfull that I didn’t buy and not pressurising me.

Oh I only have an SA who knows me well at Chanel. I went into Dior all of twice. They were really nice both times though, and I’d go back if there was a bag I was serious about.

I do feel lucky that so many luxury brands have boutiques here (DC). I wish Fendi did - they’re one of the few that don’t (of the brands I love). But it’s probably for the best, or I’d own a lot of Fendi bags…
 
Grrrrrrr! :cursing: I just realized that Platinum AmEx offers a free membership to WalMart delivery. I’m not a fan of WalMart (understatement) but figured I’d give it a try.

Well, it seems the delivery person stole the order. They marked it delivered and uploaded this supposed photo of my groceries at my front door. I didn’t realize I’d moved to a WalMart parking lot.View attachment 5290633

1) AmEx needs to pick a better delivery partner for a store I actually want to shop.

2) I’m tired of tipping BEFORE a service is complete. DoorDash, UberEats, ****, etc. all want a tip before the items arrive.:rolleyes:

3) I had to fight with WalMart for the refund. They originally only wanted to refund the cost of the groceries NOT EVEN the tax and not the tip. Make that make sense!!

4) This is the second time this week a delivery was marked completed and never arrived (the other was Target).

I’m going to give up on all these services which have never worked well (awful produce selections, missed items, etc.) and go into stores. I want to avoid Covid but I STILL don’t have groceries after two different attempts with two different stores. :mad: :mad: :mad:
That's a shame! I've never had a problem except that twice I've gotten 2 orders that weren't mine. There was no way I could find out whose orders they were because there was nothing marked on the bags.
 
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