2022 Resolution: Shopping my own bag and SLG collection. Anyone else?

[Katinahat]

2 Aug - brand showcase: A-F
4 Sept - brand showcase: G-L
11 Sept - brand showcase: M-R
18 Sept - brand showcase: S-Z
25 Sept - totes
2 Oct - satchels
9 Oct - crossbodies inc WOCS
16 Oct - shoulder bags
23 Oct - bucket bags
30 Oct - clutches
6 Nov - backpacks
13 Nov - bags that don’t count
20 Nov - pairing bags with shoes
27 Nov - pairing bags with other accessories
4 Dec - bag storage
11 Dec - SLGs
18 Dec - charms

Challenges:
Sept - bags in different locations
Oct - Halloween: wear orange or black bags
Nov - International Merlot Day: wear wine coloured bags or pair bags with wine.
Dec - use the bag.

 

[Sparkletastic]

Good call to move the Fendi on. It did sound to me like you no longer loved the bag, and it would have been quite a hassle trying to alter the appearance, and it's unlikely that the other changes would have fixed the sagging corners, which seems to have been the biggest issue. Sometimes, it's best to cut your losses and move the bag on. I sold my Burberry Camberley last year for way less than I paid for it. I loved the grainy leather and color, but something about the design was not working for me. That said, I dislike selling and want to avoid it whenever possible. My goal is to have a carefully selected collection of forever pieces that work really well for me and that I don't want to part with.

Regarding your question about the condition of bags, on a scale of 1 to 10, I would say 9 for me when I acquire a bag. That said, I do expect there will be some normal wear and tear as I continue to use it, and I don't worry too much about it. I do however take good care of my bags.

I wish I could donate the Covid loungey clothes! I am tired of them even though I just got some of them a few months ago. But I feel like we might still need them for a little bit longer, so I am hanging on to them just for the time being...

Thanks for the vote of confidence on the Fendi! I hate selling too but in this case, I think it’s necessary.

Re:Covid clothes. I had posted earlier that I’m desperate for the intersection of style and comfort for these times. So, I got rid of these super cheap temporary clothes that I bought in 2020 thinking I’d need them for maybe a few months. This will force me to get serious about embracing the new reality and getting clothes that support me feel good. One more day of leggings, hoodies or ill fitting sundresses and there was going to be a fashion related violent crime at my location. LOL!

 

[Emma1420]

I’m curious. I see various posts in which people are quite upset over “defects” on a bag that I and others can’t see in the photo they share. (Not being sarcastic. I literally cannot see it.)

Then I see other posts in which people say they prefer buying and wearing bags with significant signs of wear so they don’t have to worry about them.

So, fun question for the day! On a scale of 1 (will wear a bag even if it’s quite damaged and dirty) to 10 (utter perfectionist who can’t tolerate a dust mote on a bag) what is your number and why do you think this is your approach?

I’m 8. I like my bags to look as pristine as possible and take good care of them. But, I’m not hesitant to use them so, I expect tiny scuffs, etc. to happen along the way.

My Fendi is the first bag I will have ever sold because it wore poorly over time.

For me it depends on how long I’ve had the item. When it’s brand new it’s a 9, and I expect it to stay an 8 to 9 in its first year. I sold a Gucci tote because two of the leather on the corners chipped and the other two showed signs of wear after 6 days worth of use. For me it wasn’t that there was visible wear it’s that it showed the type of wear I’d expect to see after months to years of use not days of use. There is some wear that I just can’t live with because it will take a bag from a 9 to a 5 in two short a time window.

 

[Purses & Perfumes]

Thanks for the vote of confidence on the Fendi! I hate selling too but in this case, I think it’s necessary.

Re:Covid clothes. I had posted earlier that I’m desperate for the intersection of style and comfort for these times. So, I got rid of these super cheap temporary clothes that I bought in 2020 thinking I’d need them for maybe a few months. This will force me to get serious about embracing the new reality and getting clothes that support me feel good. One more day of leggings, hoodies or ill fitting sundresses and there was going to be a fashion related violent crime at my location. LOL!

Ha, ha, yes, those cheap temporary clothes start looking really sad after a few washes. I had a couple of maxi skirts like that and couldn't bear the sight of them after a while. The lounge clothes I like best are denim skirts and nice tops or T-shirts. I have a couple of these denim maxi and midi skirts bought ages ago that for some reason I hadn't worn. Luckily I still had them and they're a softer denim and not too stiff. I usually pair them with T shirts or a nicer top and sweater when it's cold. I am trying to find a few more skirts that are similar. The lounge clothes that I am tired of are the leggings and long cardigans, but it's cold here and I need them on the colder days.

 

[Sparkletastic]

Ha, ha, yes, those cheap temporary clothes start looking really sad after a few washes. I had a couple of maxi skirts like that and couldn't bear the sight of them after a while. The lounge clothes I like best are denim skirts and nice tops or T-shirts. I have a couple of these denim maxi and midi skirts bought ages ago that for some reason I hadn't worn. Luckily I still had them and they're a softer denim and not too stiff. I usually pair them with T shirts or a nicer top and sweater when it's cold. I am trying to find a few more skirts that are similar. The lounge clothes that I am tired of are the leggings and long cardigans, but it's cold here and I need them on the colder days.

Since it’s winter here, I’m wearing jeans, casual pants and fitted sweaters til I find what I really want to wear. They’re all a little lacking in personality bc I don’t typically wear jeans / pants (I like dresses and had formal-ish work dresses that I ditched).

One of my IRL besties @pippiethehippie and I tried to find current trends online for an hour or so together today. While we couldn’t identify a clear consensus, we are clear we aren’t wearing catsuits, midriff bearing outfits, boxy blazers or retro grunge wear sites like Vogue, Elle, et al prescribed.

 

[BowieFan1971]

Since it’s winter here, I’m wearing jeans, casual pants and fitted sweaters til I find what I really want to wear. They’re all a little lacking in personality bc I don’t typically wear jeans / pants (I like dresses and had formal-ish work dresses that I ditched).

One of my IRL besties @pippiethehippie and I tried to find current trends online for an hour or so together today. While we couldn’t identify a clear consensus, we are clear we aren’t wearing catsuits, midriff bearing outfits, boxy blazers or retro grunge wear sites like Vogue, Elle, et al prescribed.

Clothes that don’t look good on anyone over a size 4 or over the age of 35. When will they realize the majority of women don’t meet those parameters which means that the majority of money out there doesn’t either…. That’s why at a certain point in a woman’s life, fashion becomes irrelevant and style becomes everything.

I get you on being sick if pandemic clothes…I remember how much I hated my maternity clothes by the tine my pregnancy was over. I never wanted to look at my maternity clothes ever again. There were a few things I seriously considered burning!

 

[880]

I have the same issue but have managed to give away many bags. I start by culling the “possibles“ out of the “herd” and then I let them sit for awhile. Usually I get used to the idea and give them away. Once in a while I’ll pull one out I’ve forgotten I loved so much and keep it. The most expensive ones go to family members and best friends. It makes me feel good to see them carried instead of sitting on a shelf! And they bring others joy. It makes me smile when I see them being enjoyed and loved!

I do this too! It’s a good feeling when a friend or family loves something!

also, my DH hates grocery shopping. When we go visit his family, we end up taking MIL to Costco etc. It’s an ordeal

@Sparkletastic, glad you’ve decided to rehome with DD awhile! Had no idea boxy blazers were really back lol

 

[hotgalaxy]

Yup, same with me and H scarves especially new. This is why I diverted finds for jewellery more recently.

Yup, I've been the same with H scarves. I don't want to have a large collection. I want to create a curated scarf drawer filled with scarves that a)I will use frequently and b) that I feel absolutely fabulous wearing. Consequently I now find myself on this forum contemplating my handbag/jewellery collections. Thanks for the insights everyone.

 

[papertiger]

Since it’s winter here, I’m wearing jeans, casual pants and fitted sweaters til I find what I really want to wear. They’re all a little lacking in personality bc I don’t typically wear jeans / pants (I like dresses and had formal-ish work dresses that I ditched).

One of my IRL besties @pippiethehippie and I tried to find current trends online for an hour or so together today. While we couldn’t identify a clear consensus, we are clear we aren’t wearing catsuits, midriff bearing outfits, boxy blazers or retro grunge wear sites like Vogue, Elle, et al prescribed.

I actually love all those trends, they've been around for quite a few years now, and add to it Dark Academia too. I've always worn catsuits so I'm not stopping since they're in fashion, blame reruns of 1960s show The Avengers.

 

[880]

I actually love all those trends, they've been around for quite a few years now, and add to it Dark Academia too. I've always worn catsuits so I'm not stopping since they're in fashion, blame reruns of 1960s show The Avengers.

Agree With above Even though I’m 54, there is plenty of relevant current fashion for me to incorporate into my own style.

As soon as you said Dark Academia, I thought of the movie Heathers and donna Tartes book The secret History lol. My personal style is actually a bit more Navy blue school girl (a little less academia). But, it’s not as polished parody as Dior spring 2022 plaid referencing the movie Clueless.

I find it fun to see if I can work current youthful fashion trends, like midriff centric pieces or thigh high boots, into my own style. I mix what I already have in my closet with newer purchases. Here, a sliver of midriff with a vintage from my own closet, chanel boucle jacket from 2002, black retourne K28, brushed phw, by @docride, wolford skirt and top (not shown) thigh high dior combat boots (I never wore a stiletto thigh high, but the chunky combat version is right for me)

i cannot really make a boxy blazer work with my height and body type, but there is plenty of other trends to choose from

 

[papertiger]

Agree With above Even though I’m 54, there is plenty of relevant current fashion for me to incorporate into my own style.

As soon as you said Dark Academia, I thought of the movie Heathers and donna Tartes book The secret History lol. My personal style is actually a bit more Navy blue school girl (a little less grunge). But, it’s not as polished parody as Dior spring 2022 plaid referencing the movie Clueless.

I find it fun to see if I can work current youthful fashion trends, like midriff centric pieces or thigh high boots, into my own style. I mix what I already have in my closet with newer purchases. Here, a sliver of midriff with a vintage from my own closet, chanel boucle jacket from 2002, black retourne K28, brushed phw, by @docride, wolford skirt and top (not shown) thigh high dior combat boots (I never wore a stiletto thigh high, but the combat version is right for me)

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You look great!
You make me want to wear my BBK too -

Hurrah for this thread!

 

[Purses & Perfumes]

One of my IRL besties @pippiethehippie and I tried to find current trends online for an hour or so together today. While we couldn’t identify a clear consensus, we are clear we aren’t wearing catsuits, midriff bearing outfits, boxy blazers or retro grunge wear sites like Vogue, Elle, et al prescribed.

I didn't know boxy blazers were in style either, but I do love a very slightly oversized wool or tweed blazer over jeans or trousers, paired with boots -- actually, this is pretty much my cold weather uniform. Not a fan of the boxy silhouette though, and I will not be wearing any of the others mentioned above.

But I did take a look at 2022 trends and there's definitely some wearable stuff for me: Pleated skirts are still going strong and they are very flattering on a lot of people. Also, wide-legged pants (these could perhaps be worn around the house if the fabric is comfortable, and make a change from leggings), and little cropped cardigans/shrugs (these were styled with midriff baring tops, but I think they could easily be worn over a plain, fitted, waist length T-shirt).

I am less sure about all white monochrome clothing (looks great, but high maintenance) and gingham, which is supposed to be trending as well. Fuchsia is in too -- I have a fuchsia dress with a nice, swirly pleated skirt. It's a bit tight right now, but hopefully, I can wear it by the time summer comes around!

 

[SakuraSakura]

Since it’s winter here, I’m wearing jeans, casual pants and fitted sweaters til I find what I really want to wear. They’re all a little lacking in personality bc I don’t typically wear jeans / pants (I like dresses and had formal-ish work dresses that I ditched).

One of my IRL besties @pippiethehippie and I tried to find current trends online for an hour or so together today. While we couldn’t identify a clear consensus, we are clear we aren’t wearing catsuits, midriff bearing outfits, boxy blazers or retro grunge wear sites like Vogue, Elle, et al prescribed.

Elle et al, 2022. " No Boxy Blazers or Midriffs." The Purse Forum.

 

[dcooney4]

Okay, I pulled out the Prada and really don’t want to wear it. I still think is is stunning but it is not a crossbody. It can be long shoulder or doubled up to be regular shoulder. Doubled the chain would kill my sensitive shoulder. If I was short I could wear it Crossbody but I am not. I don’t like long straps on the side of my body because they always fall off. Now I need to decide if I should keep it for parties only with no coat on or let it go.

 

[dcooney4]

Here is a quick picture so you can see what I am talking about.

 

[BowieFan1971]

I didn't know boxy blazers were in style either, but I do love a very slightly oversized wool or tweed blazer over jeans or trousers, paired with boots -- actually, this is pretty much my cold weather uniform. Not a fan of the boxy silhouette though, and I will also not be wearing any of the others mentioned above.

But I did take a look at 2022 trends and there's definitely some wearable stuff for me: Pleated skirts are still going strong and they are very flattering on a lot of people. Also, wide-legged pants (these could perhaps be worn around the house if the fabric is comfortable, and make a change from leggings), and little cropped cardigans/shrugs (these were styled with midriff baring tops, but I think they could easily be worn over a plain, fitted, waist length T-shirt).

I am less sure about all white monochrome clothing (looks great, but high maintenance) and gingham, which is supposed to be trending as well. Fuchsia is in too -- I have a fuchsia dress with a nice, swirly pleated skirt. It's a bit tight right now, but hopefully, I can wear it by the time summer comes around!

But those are perfect examples of fashion only being relevant in relation to your style. There are some years fashion veers closer in line to my personal style and what fits/suits/compliments me. Great! Means I will actually be able to find things I like and will wear. Other years, I can’t find a thing unless I want to wear clothes thst look like crap on me or make me feel truly awkward or self-conscious. So I refuse to buy in those years. Why waste money on something I won’t wear because I feel off when I do?

I look at the fashion sites out of curiosity but on the whole, I couldn’t care less if my wardrobe or ensemble is Anna Wintour-approved as long as I feel good about how I look and feel. I refuse to give anyone the permission to dictate what I should look like and how I feel about it. Especially when, for them, my continued discontent and need to stay “current” is part of their business for profit model. It chafes.