Would this situation bother you? -- On Friday, the secretary at the office offered to get my bag from the other office (remember that I mentioned before that I hold 2 positions now). I was at the 3rd floor and the bag was at the 2nd floor. I had been going up and down a lot that day so when the secretary was asking me for some contribution for something, I expressed that the bag (where my wallet was) was downstairs and I was already tired to get it. So she volunteered. I heard her voice when she came back. I waited a few seconds and wondered why she had not shown up at my cubicle. So I took a peek outside. The girls were checking my bag out! An older co-worker, a casual friend, was even modeling my bag! It was my latest black Massaccesi bag btw.
In our local culture, privacy is not as big as in the Western culture. I was half okay with what they did and half irked as well. Okay in the sense that they were admiring my bag. But irked that they did not even ask me if I'm good with it.
I don't like other people handling my bags because they often have long nails which can scratch nice leather. I am sure they meant well though.