You think they would have dealt with this before getting married. I think he lives in Indiana. It seems like a pretty big issue to figure out before your on air wedding. They must have talked about it at some point?I didn't watch but I like reading about it -- apparently she wanted to stay in NJ and he wouldn't move from his state, which is not NJ.
If they really were in love, couldn't they visit each other, might be fun to go back and forth. At least give it a try before immediately filing for divorce.
They never lived together, each stayed in their own home from the beginning. They also had a prenup, so good for her.