merika- the victoria doesn't feel big at all. it sits sorta back like in duna's picture and is very comfortable.
as far as the lindy; i have that also. i love the victoria but couldn't get it easily over my winter stuff. i'm not as slim as duna because it looks like she wouldn't have a problem so i got lindy for my winter bag. i don't like to change bags frequently and i like to "settle into" a bag. lindy and victoria are similar in the amount they hold and the width so i love them both.
as far as the lindy; i have that also. i love the victoria but couldn't get it easily over my winter stuff. i'm not as slim as duna because it looks like she wouldn't have a problem so i got lindy for my winter bag. i don't like to change bags frequently and i like to "settle into" a bag. lindy and victoria are similar in the amount they hold and the width so i love them both.