Earliest -- A gold cross with a small diamond that my mom gave me as a child. I was somewhere in elementary school at the time, and absolutely loved it.
Most sentimental (and yet, something that I rarely wear) -- A sterling silver "luckenbooth" brooch, with a gem made of dried-pressed-and-dyed heather from Scotland. (A luckenbooth is like an Irish claddaugh, but minus the hands.) My husband proposed to me with that luckenbooth. My roots are German and Scottish, with a Scottish last name, and I had learned that gentlemen used to propose with luckenbooths some years ago in Scotland. Then the couple would pin it to their future babies' blankets/christening gowns. Soon after, I was able to design my own engagement ring ... but that luckenbooth has always made me smile.
Ironically, that engagement ring has a newer, completely different memory attached. I don't like diamonds, and the ring is basically one ruby, for love, accented by blue sapphires for faithfulness. The first time I ever held our daughter (she was 10 months old at the time, having been adopted), she was absolutely fascinated by that ruby. Absolutely fascinated. It soon turned out, red is her favorite color.
As for daughter, I don't know what her first memory is, but I bet I know what her most emotional one would be --- a pearl necklace and bracelet set her Philipino Godfather brought back from the Philipines. The pearls were probably cultured in China, but then purchased in the Philipines, which is even more fitting. Daughter is from an area in China that has a signfiicant Philipino population, and my Chinese friends think daughter is actually part Philipino herself. Indeed, we believe she was matched up with us because we told China that she would have a Philipino Godfather. Even now, daughter is the spitting image of her Godfather's sister at that age. ... But anyway, those pearls, while far from the most expensive in the world (freshwater baroque, dyed peacock color), have both Chinese and Philipino history to them, much as we think daughter does. I know she absolutely adores them, even more than various gold pendants her grandmothers have given her.
eta: Quick editing to attach a pic of the luckenbooth. Bad lighting, bad color, a photographer I am *not*.
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