Why do some girls have a lots of clothes?
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I think it’s based on a number of things.
Some people simply like variety and don’t want to wear the same items too frequently.
Some people loooove fashion. It’s their hobby and they like playing with and wearing interesting, stylish clothes.
Some people like to keep up with trends so they almost have to buy new every season to do so.
Some people are hoarders, are responding to peer pressure, shop to relieve mental stressors or are just plain shopping addicts. Those people should get help to stop because then the clothes aren’t serving them but instead are covering up a deep issue that needs to be solved.
If you want to stop, I’d suggest you do what you said. Play around with what you have. Restyle it and find new combinations for outfits. Join one of the shopping your closet threads on tPF and get support for enjoying what you have while being thoughtful about any new purchases. Even start a new hobby to divert your time more productively.
If you still can’t stop your shopping, then I’d suggest you get some support and find out why you are shopping when you don’t want or need to. Good luck!
Some people simply like variety and don’t want to wear the same items too frequently.
Some people loooove fashion. It’s their hobby and they like playing with and wearing interesting, stylish clothes.
Some people like to keep up with trends so they almost have to buy new every season to do so.
Some people are hoarders, are responding to peer pressure, shop to relieve mental stressors or are just plain shopping addicts. Those people should get help to stop because then the clothes aren’t serving them but instead are covering up a deep issue that needs to be solved.
If you want to stop, I’d suggest you do what you said. Play around with what you have. Restyle it and find new combinations for outfits. Join one of the shopping your closet threads on tPF and get support for enjoying what you have while being thoughtful about any new purchases. Even start a new hobby to divert your time more productively.
If you still can’t stop your shopping, then I’d suggest you get some support and find out why you are shopping when you don’t want or need to. Good luck!
For me, it's just a matter of having different clothes and for different activities. I have clothes for work, clothes for working out, clothes for relaxing, and clothes for running errands. My workplace requires dressing conservatively so I can't just come in wearing my workout clothes or wearing my lounging clothes.
I also don't like to lounge in the workout clothes that I just sweated in post workout so I shower and change into more comfortable clothes to relax in or change into jeans and t-shirt if I need to run errands post-workout.
It sounds like too much but i only have one closet for all my clothes and shoes so there's that.
I also don't like to lounge in the workout clothes that I just sweated in post workout so I shower and change into more comfortable clothes to relax in or change into jeans and t-shirt if I need to run errands post-workout.
It sounds like too much but i only have one closet for all my clothes and shoes so there's that.
Yes i need clothes suit excersise for run or walk, clothes for daily use and work, dress for party or ceremony.. I think men do not have this problem life more easy.
I think buying new clothes give me happiness it is source to enjoy in my life like food or coffee... Also I'm weak I can not stop shopping interst in new style colors.
If you'd like to change your shopping habits, I would suggest you look into doing a 'low-buy year'. You don't stop shopping completely, you just reduce it over time.
Have a look on Youtube, lots of people are trying to change their habits in this way and documenting how they did it. You might find it helpful.
Have a look on Youtube, lots of people are trying to change their habits in this way and documenting how they did it. You might find it helpful.
Men life is easier?
Nah, there are men who are clotheshorse, just like there are women who love shopping like moi!
Don’t compare yourself to anyone, life will be way easier, imo.
After talking to a friend who recently bought her wedding dress I usually apply the rule: would I marry in this (not actually in this item but do i feel like this is IT). I think I made too much compromises in the clothing I bought. When I apply the wedding rule I easily buy only a few items per year. Also I have a monthy budget of which I only used 2/3 last year. This year teh budget is'nt even touched due to the crisis... Anyways: try to think about marrying in every new item. This helps a lot.
For me, a couple of reasons: I get so easily attached to clothing that nearly everything ends up having “sentimental value,” plus my weight has fluctuated heavily the last couple of years due to flare-ups and pregnancy. Having a variety of sizes around has been helpful, but I really need to let most of the old sentimental stuff go!!
Edited to add: I used to buy tons of thrifted clothes, but I’ve traded one addiction for another...I’m all about collecting purses and fashion dolls these days.
Edited to add: I used to buy tons of thrifted clothes, but I’ve traded one addiction for another...I’m all about collecting purses and fashion dolls these days.
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I don't obsessively shop clothing anymore. I did back when I didn't understand my sense of style, consistently felt uncomfortable with my wardrobe, and found deals that were 'too good to pass up.'
I've done a lot of self reflecting over the years and now understand what colors I like vs what colors I can actually wear that suit my skin tone. I look better in cool colors but am visually attracted to warm. I also think pattern can be really cute, just not necessarily on my body. I also understand fit now and what looks good on my body. I'm thick in the middle thus I will not look good in many trendy items (especially these days.)
I think once you find a wardrobe that you are comfortable with, the need to incessantly shop for clothes stops.
I do have a shopping/anxiety thing though, so the shopping still happens. Just not on clothes. I try to binge buy useful items these days and try to think of the Kon Mari method.
I've done a lot of self reflecting over the years and now understand what colors I like vs what colors I can actually wear that suit my skin tone. I look better in cool colors but am visually attracted to warm. I also think pattern can be really cute, just not necessarily on my body. I also understand fit now and what looks good on my body. I'm thick in the middle thus I will not look good in many trendy items (especially these days.)
I think once you find a wardrobe that you are comfortable with, the need to incessantly shop for clothes stops.
I do have a shopping/anxiety thing though, so the shopping still happens. Just not on clothes. I try to binge buy useful items these days and try to think of the Kon Mari method.
I had a lot of clothes and I still do. I think I keep so many of them because I feel like I'll wear them later or they'll fit into my life or work style eventually. I don't buy as much as before. I know more about myself, particularly what I will wear, so I'll buy multiples that are part of my work/weekend wardrobe. I only have a few pieces that I wear for formal occasions. Also, I just like to wear my clothes until they literally get worn out...I'm wearing a decade old pair of Adidas track pants as I type this...
I'm somewhat the opposite.
I prefer to buy basics and classic clothes (solid colours in black, navy and grey or navy and white or black and white stripes). I basically live in black skinny jeans (which almost pass as black trousers) as it can take me from day to night easily.
To mix it up, I also like some pieces to have an edge. I like scouting for basics with an edge (i.e. different twists, piping, symmetries, etc) and have the odd print here and there, such as a few Josh Goot silk A-line skirts, which I love dearly.
Fashion cycles change way too much for me and this can be an expensive habit to maintain. Plus it's nice to look at old photos of yourself and not cringe at your previous outfits.
Instead, I prefer to leave the flair for accessories. Scarves, jewellery, shoes and bags really complete an outfit and give the outfit an "edge".
I prefer to buy basics and classic clothes (solid colours in black, navy and grey or navy and white or black and white stripes). I basically live in black skinny jeans (which almost pass as black trousers) as it can take me from day to night easily.
To mix it up, I also like some pieces to have an edge. I like scouting for basics with an edge (i.e. different twists, piping, symmetries, etc) and have the odd print here and there, such as a few Josh Goot silk A-line skirts, which I love dearly.
Fashion cycles change way too much for me and this can be an expensive habit to maintain. Plus it's nice to look at old photos of yourself and not cringe at your previous outfits.
Instead, I prefer to leave the flair for accessories. Scarves, jewellery, shoes and bags really complete an outfit and give the outfit an "edge".
I feel the same way and have been clearing out my closet for the last 2 years, instead investing in classic pieces and splurging on jewelry and fun but classic accessories like the Hermes CDC.
Having too many clothes and too many choices actually gives me anxiety these days.